"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Something I've noticed.

HolyG

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After sticking around this site for quite a while, there's something I've noticed.

Most DJ's here (the people that KNOW what they're talking about) sometimes speak of all HBs as though they're stuck up/shallow. To actually attract one, you've got to be a prize. This I don't argue.

But do you really have to be a challenge?

I've gotten girls by being nice, too. Not too nice- throw some confidence, humor, teasing, sexuality into the mix.

Not all HBs are stuck up. Some-no, MOST will actually be attracted by straight up flirting and sexuality, and above all, confidence.


What do you think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ChrizZ

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It all depends on inner game. If you come from a position of neediness or are desperate, women can smell that from a mile away.

Women are friendly to a man that likes women.

A man that likes women is liked by women.
 

Potbelly

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I think this site is too polar.

We come in as hurt victimized nice guys....bitter on the inside...

...few months later...we come out of this place with that bitter formed into hatred and anger...we come out as *******s.

DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THAT WAY

Damn there's a difference between being nice key and HAVING A SPINE/KIND hybrid. Such a simple concept people don't get. I however say what I want...so whatever
 

3countriesPlan

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ChrizZ said:
Women are friendly to a man that likes women.

A man that likes women is liked by women.
nice quote man....
something I have noticed is that as I got better at picking up girls my interest in stocks and my future got even stronger. As you gain even more self confidence you start taking an interest into things that you didn't care much about before. It is like the exact opposite of depression.
 
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