"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Something I've noticed.

HolyG

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After sticking around this site for quite a while, there's something I've noticed.

Most DJ's here (the people that KNOW what they're talking about) sometimes speak of all HBs as though they're stuck up/shallow. To actually attract one, you've got to be a prize. This I don't argue.

But do you really have to be a challenge?

I've gotten girls by being nice, too. Not too nice- throw some confidence, humor, teasing, sexuality into the mix.

Not all HBs are stuck up. Some-no, MOST will actually be attracted by straight up flirting and sexuality, and above all, confidence.


What do you think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ChrizZ

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It all depends on inner game. If you come from a position of neediness or are desperate, women can smell that from a mile away.

Women are friendly to a man that likes women.

A man that likes women is liked by women.
 

Potbelly

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I think this site is too polar.

We come in as hurt victimized nice guys....bitter on the inside...

...few months later...we come out of this place with that bitter formed into hatred and anger...we come out as *******s.

DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THAT WAY

Damn there's a difference between being nice key and HAVING A SPINE/KIND hybrid. Such a simple concept people don't get. I however say what I want...so whatever
 

3countriesPlan

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ChrizZ said:
Women are friendly to a man that likes women.

A man that likes women is liked by women.
nice quote man....
something I have noticed is that as I got better at picking up girls my interest in stocks and my future got even stronger. As you gain even more self confidence you start taking an interest into things that you didn't care much about before. It is like the exact opposite of depression.
 
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