"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Something I've noticed.

HolyG

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After sticking around this site for quite a while, there's something I've noticed.

Most DJ's here (the people that KNOW what they're talking about) sometimes speak of all HBs as though they're stuck up/shallow. To actually attract one, you've got to be a prize. This I don't argue.

But do you really have to be a challenge?

I've gotten girls by being nice, too. Not too nice- throw some confidence, humor, teasing, sexuality into the mix.

Not all HBs are stuck up. Some-no, MOST will actually be attracted by straight up flirting and sexuality, and above all, confidence.


What do you think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ChrizZ

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It all depends on inner game. If you come from a position of neediness or are desperate, women can smell that from a mile away.

Women are friendly to a man that likes women.

A man that likes women is liked by women.
 

Potbelly

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I think this site is too polar.

We come in as hurt victimized nice guys....bitter on the inside...

...few months later...we come out of this place with that bitter formed into hatred and anger...we come out as *******s.

DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THAT WAY

Damn there's a difference between being nice key and HAVING A SPINE/KIND hybrid. Such a simple concept people don't get. I however say what I want...so whatever
 

3countriesPlan

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ChrizZ said:
Women are friendly to a man that likes women.

A man that likes women is liked by women.
nice quote man....
something I have noticed is that as I got better at picking up girls my interest in stocks and my future got even stronger. As you gain even more self confidence you start taking an interest into things that you didn't care much about before. It is like the exact opposite of depression.
 
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