"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Something i read online that i wish i didn't

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that is a attraction

but love is love

love is real

relationships are real. if they weren't than there wouldn't be any

don't believe everything you read on the internet.
anyone could put anything up on here and claim it truth

don't worry about man. if love is what you want then you'll find it

good luck :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Aboleo said:
So, basically, what you are saying is that if I see a ghost, for example, that I didn't because science tells us that ghosts don't exist?!
YES. I believe If anyone sees a ghost it is just a trick of the mind. People only see ghosts in altered states of mind.

This guy made me start to look deeper into the workings of the mind.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Sq-YUdq1OI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G18NfN76bAs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=haP7Ys9ocTk

I may sound close minded but let me assure I am not. I have actively gone out looking for ghosts (thought I saw something), researched astrology, spoken to god and read some of the bible.

The spirituality aspect only exists in our heads, and helps some people with peace of mind.
 

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wolf116 said:
The spirituality aspect only exists in our heads, and helps some people with peace of mind.

According to the neural impulses and chemical reactions within my brain, if one thing I experience with certainty must questioned to be real, surely all things must also come into question... including you. Am I really talking to you, or is it just some chemical response happening within my brain?

Come on man, even your ****ing head is only real to a certain extent. Your whole body is an atomic structure, which is to say that it is all held together by a force of energy. Einstein's famous equation, E = mc2, teaches us that matter and energy are interchangeable, they are simply different forms of the same thing.

I'll ty to write more later, but I've gotta' get back to work right now. This is a great discussion, though. I hope we can keep it going even if this thread is locked.
 

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Aboleo said:
According to the neural impulses and chemical reactions within my brain, if one thing I experience with certainty must questioned to be real, surely all things must also come into question... including you. Am I really talking to you, or is it just some chemical response happening within my brain?

Come on man, even your ****ing head is only real to a certain extent. Your whole body is an atomic structure, which is to say that it is all held together by a force of energy. Einstein's famous equation, E = mc2, teaches us that matter and energy are interchangeable, they are simply different forms of the same thing.

I'll ty to write more later, but I've gotta' get back to work right now. This is a great discussion, though. I hope we can keep it going even if this thread is locked.
This is the sort of thing I talk to my mates about when camping under the stars.
I'm not sure if it's a pointless exercise or not due to the inevitability of becoming more confused with every question asked. I learned this after failing my quantum physics subject.

All I know is that ghosts, god, spirits, fairies and the boogie monster are only 'real' to some people, BUT I'm real to everyone.

BTW I'm not taking the piss with the boogie monster remark, I saw the boogie monster under my bed as a kid and he scared the **** out of me. To me ghosts the adult version of the boogie monster.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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