"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Something i read online that i wish i didn't

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that is a attraction

but love is love

love is real

relationships are real. if they weren't than there wouldn't be any

don't believe everything you read on the internet.
anyone could put anything up on here and claim it truth

don't worry about man. if love is what you want then you'll find it

good luck :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Aboleo said:
So, basically, what you are saying is that if I see a ghost, for example, that I didn't because science tells us that ghosts don't exist?!
YES. I believe If anyone sees a ghost it is just a trick of the mind. People only see ghosts in altered states of mind.

This guy made me start to look deeper into the workings of the mind.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Sq-YUdq1OI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G18NfN76bAs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=haP7Ys9ocTk

I may sound close minded but let me assure I am not. I have actively gone out looking for ghosts (thought I saw something), researched astrology, spoken to god and read some of the bible.

The spirituality aspect only exists in our heads, and helps some people with peace of mind.
 

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wolf116 said:
The spirituality aspect only exists in our heads, and helps some people with peace of mind.

According to the neural impulses and chemical reactions within my brain, if one thing I experience with certainty must questioned to be real, surely all things must also come into question... including you. Am I really talking to you, or is it just some chemical response happening within my brain?

Come on man, even your ****ing head is only real to a certain extent. Your whole body is an atomic structure, which is to say that it is all held together by a force of energy. Einstein's famous equation, E = mc2, teaches us that matter and energy are interchangeable, they are simply different forms of the same thing.

I'll ty to write more later, but I've gotta' get back to work right now. This is a great discussion, though. I hope we can keep it going even if this thread is locked.
 

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Aboleo said:
According to the neural impulses and chemical reactions within my brain, if one thing I experience with certainty must questioned to be real, surely all things must also come into question... including you. Am I really talking to you, or is it just some chemical response happening within my brain?

Come on man, even your ****ing head is only real to a certain extent. Your whole body is an atomic structure, which is to say that it is all held together by a force of energy. Einstein's famous equation, E = mc2, teaches us that matter and energy are interchangeable, they are simply different forms of the same thing.

I'll ty to write more later, but I've gotta' get back to work right now. This is a great discussion, though. I hope we can keep it going even if this thread is locked.
This is the sort of thing I talk to my mates about when camping under the stars.
I'm not sure if it's a pointless exercise or not due to the inevitability of becoming more confused with every question asked. I learned this after failing my quantum physics subject.

All I know is that ghosts, god, spirits, fairies and the boogie monster are only 'real' to some people, BUT I'm real to everyone.

BTW I'm not taking the piss with the boogie monster remark, I saw the boogie monster under my bed as a kid and he scared the **** out of me. To me ghosts the adult version of the boogie monster.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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