"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Something I learned playing GTA 4

Blackmm

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In the game, you can date several women at a time. You do typical things like eating, drinking, shooting pool, etc. Everything ends with sex at her place. You get certain perks from certain girls (health boost, clothing discounts, freedom from cop trouble).

What I am getting at is that even with all this pvssy and benefits available to you, most of the time you are flying helicopters, driving fast cars, completing hit missions and doing other exciting things for yourself. You only date to keep the girl on your team for your benefit.

Sounds like the attitude you need to have in real life, less the crime and killing.:up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, yeah the game does teach good life lessons like that.

Also it teaches to have a tight knit group of close friends or family if possible because if you let just anyone into your life they could turn out to be a government agent ready to testify against you ala Michelle a.k.a Karen. :crackup:

Yeah though Roman and Malorie are pretty good friends to Nikko in the game as well Roman is his cousin. Many of the posters on this site could use Roman as a model to see if they actually have any true friends in their lives. Sure Roman can be a bit cowardly but at least he is loyal and that is what seperates him from many Sosuavers friends whom I've read about during my time here.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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r0cky said:
You guys are such nerds.
Yeah I guess you're right, we should take helicopter flying lessons.
Why not? Wouldn't it be fun to fly a helicopter and ejoy the view. If it's not your thing then, fine something else to learn or do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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500_W00P

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A don juan isn't afraid to fall in love. He's not afraid to care about a girl. You guys are truely misguided, its not always about manipulation of the female or getting what you can "get" from her.
In fact if you are genuinely interested in her then you can run your game even smoother than if you were just putting up with her. It makes the mind games more fun.
k thx
bye
 

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0mg @s !f u play v!de0 g@mez!!! lolz


Haha nice idea :p
 

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I learned from playing GTA that it bored the hell out of me. It's just not that much fun going on a virtual date to the bowling alley followed by a virtual car wash WTF! I traded it for LEGO Indy and never looked back, bring on the LEGO Batman......
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SinJester

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Lol!
 
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