"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Something I learned by experience

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Im assuming that most of us know about david deangelo's ****y funny strategies. And I know this tip is probably already here but is never bad to say it again. "DO NOT" "DO NOT" use the funny ****y attitude with a shy girl. The consequences could be dangerous. I know because I experience those consequences today. Well, basically after using a lot of ****y jokes this girl busted into tears and told me I was the most horrible person she has ever met in "her entire life". I know this is funny now but there isnt much you can do when she is :cuss: at you. So to avoid this kind of situations pay "a lot" of attention to her body language. :crazy:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lol... yea dude you have to be really carefull..

See what happens with ****y funny is that, you think your funny.. but your actually just ****y...

Hot Girls = ****y..they love it
Ugly = ****y... You suck, your ass hole etc...
Middle = ****y ...will take it for a min and afterwards...U suck..

****y = lower value to girls..

Neg = ****y... So If you want to be ****y, use it like a NEG
 
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I find that it definitely works better with hotter, more outgoing girls.
 
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Damn, Someday, I'm going to take the time to explain what ****y means in terms of C+F to you guys.

You have top learn which form of ****y is most suitable for women. Not using the same general ****iness across the board...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You have to be funny and not give a sh1t.
Using D. Angelo's material is just being a total insecure prick.
How would you like it if some girl started saying that kind of crap to you?

I would b1tch slap her! lmao

There's:
- ****y and funny
- Completely random stupid funny, but acting like you're serious. hehe

use more of the second, and try not to do direct insults unless you're dealing w/ a highschool drama queen.
The only time i ever use ****y and funny is when a girl tries to take the "prize status".
At which point you say, Hell no girl, In your dreams!
 
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C&F is not a synonym for insulting, but at least you were trying.

this girl busted into tears and told me I was the most horrible person she has ever met in "her entire life".

Even that is better than not trying at all. You will only get better. Guys often wonder - what's the worst that can happen? I think you've just experienced it, so it only gets easier from here.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yea that was funny, but most shy girls are reserved and most of them i believe take your words literally.
 
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It can work great on shy girls as well, but there are some girls who take everything litterally. But that doesn't matter, those girls are not fun to be with anyway.
 
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HypeR said:
It can work great on shy girls as well, but there are some girls who take everything litterally. But that doesn't matter, those girls are not fun to be with anyway.
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Amen to that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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