"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Something I learned by experience

Pilo

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Im assuming that most of us know about david deangelo's ****y funny strategies. And I know this tip is probably already here but is never bad to say it again. "DO NOT" "DO NOT" use the funny ****y attitude with a shy girl. The consequences could be dangerous. I know because I experience those consequences today. Well, basically after using a lot of ****y jokes this girl busted into tears and told me I was the most horrible person she has ever met in "her entire life". I know this is funny now but there isnt much you can do when she is :cuss: at you. So to avoid this kind of situations pay "a lot" of attention to her body language. :crazy:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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benchod

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lol... yea dude you have to be really carefull..

See what happens with ****y funny is that, you think your funny.. but your actually just ****y...

Hot Girls = ****y..they love it
Ugly = ****y... You suck, your ass hole etc...
Middle = ****y ...will take it for a min and afterwards...U suck..

****y = lower value to girls..

Neg = ****y... So If you want to be ****y, use it like a NEG
 

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I find that it definitely works better with hotter, more outgoing girls.
 

ethnomethodologist

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Damn, Someday, I'm going to take the time to explain what ****y means in terms of C+F to you guys.

You have top learn which form of ****y is most suitable for women. Not using the same general ****iness across the board...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jake-inator

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You have to be funny and not give a sh1t.
Using D. Angelo's material is just being a total insecure prick.
How would you like it if some girl started saying that kind of crap to you?

I would b1tch slap her! lmao

There's:
- ****y and funny
- Completely random stupid funny, but acting like you're serious. hehe

use more of the second, and try not to do direct insults unless you're dealing w/ a highschool drama queen.
The only time i ever use ****y and funny is when a girl tries to take the "prize status".
At which point you say, Hell no girl, In your dreams!
 

Bible_Belt

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C&F is not a synonym for insulting, but at least you were trying.

this girl busted into tears and told me I was the most horrible person she has ever met in "her entire life".

Even that is better than not trying at all. You will only get better. Guys often wonder - what's the worst that can happen? I think you've just experienced it, so it only gets easier from here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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t00dumb

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yea that was funny, but most shy girls are reserved and most of them i believe take your words literally.
 

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It can work great on shy girls as well, but there are some girls who take everything litterally. But that doesn't matter, those girls are not fun to be with anyway.
 

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HypeR said:
It can work great on shy girls as well, but there are some girls who take everything litterally. But that doesn't matter, those girls are not fun to be with anyway.

Amen to that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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