"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Something I learned by experience

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Im assuming that most of us know about david deangelo's ****y funny strategies. And I know this tip is probably already here but is never bad to say it again. "DO NOT" "DO NOT" use the funny ****y attitude with a shy girl. The consequences could be dangerous. I know because I experience those consequences today. Well, basically after using a lot of ****y jokes this girl busted into tears and told me I was the most horrible person she has ever met in "her entire life". I know this is funny now but there isnt much you can do when she is :cuss: at you. So to avoid this kind of situations pay "a lot" of attention to her body language. :crazy:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lol... yea dude you have to be really carefull..

See what happens with ****y funny is that, you think your funny.. but your actually just ****y...

Hot Girls = ****y..they love it
Ugly = ****y... You suck, your ass hole etc...
Middle = ****y ...will take it for a min and afterwards...U suck..

****y = lower value to girls..

Neg = ****y... So If you want to be ****y, use it like a NEG
 
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I find that it definitely works better with hotter, more outgoing girls.
 
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Damn, Someday, I'm going to take the time to explain what ****y means in terms of C+F to you guys.

You have top learn which form of ****y is most suitable for women. Not using the same general ****iness across the board...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You have to be funny and not give a sh1t.
Using D. Angelo's material is just being a total insecure prick.
How would you like it if some girl started saying that kind of crap to you?

I would b1tch slap her! lmao

There's:
- ****y and funny
- Completely random stupid funny, but acting like you're serious. hehe

use more of the second, and try not to do direct insults unless you're dealing w/ a highschool drama queen.
The only time i ever use ****y and funny is when a girl tries to take the "prize status".
At which point you say, Hell no girl, In your dreams!
 
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C&F is not a synonym for insulting, but at least you were trying.

this girl busted into tears and told me I was the most horrible person she has ever met in "her entire life".

Even that is better than not trying at all. You will only get better. Guys often wonder - what's the worst that can happen? I think you've just experienced it, so it only gets easier from here.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yea that was funny, but most shy girls are reserved and most of them i believe take your words literally.
 
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It can work great on shy girls as well, but there are some girls who take everything litterally. But that doesn't matter, those girls are not fun to be with anyway.
 
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HypeR said:
It can work great on shy girls as well, but there are some girls who take everything litterally. But that doesn't matter, those girls are not fun to be with anyway.
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Amen to that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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