"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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someone please kick my ass - I've lost the plot

stinkyape

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I've let a girl get under my skin and it's pissing me off.

There's some interest on her part, but half the time when I get her alone her body language cools right off. The worst news is that I've got an emotion interest in her - which is screwing me right up. Worse still is that the "challenge" means I'm having trouble moving on from her and getting back to the old me.

I've also shunned three 18 year old university/college students in the last week or two because I've been focussed on this one girl. Such a moron.

Please tell me what a spaz I've been, and if you've had such an experience yourself then advice on how I can stop being so dumb would be appreciated. :eek:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You have two options as I see it. Either:
1) Go all crazy and drive off a cliff spazzing out about it, or

2) Set the mood one night, get the perfect movie, cook for her, even make sure the lighting is right. Invite her over (make sure the place is clean). When she gets inside your place, stab her @ss to death. Better her than you, eh? :up:
 

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Rex Man said:
You have two options as I see it. Either:
1) Go all crazy and drive off a cliff spazzing out about it, or

2) Set the mood one night, get the perfect movie, cook for her, even make sure the lighting is right. Invite her over (make sure the place is clean). When she gets inside your place, stab her @ss to death. Better her than you, eh? :up:

LOL

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You have to man up dude.

If you're not getting what you want you just have to grab your balls and force yourself to get over it.

****, cry in a pillow in your bedroom if you have to. Don't let her know that, but do what you have to to move on.
 

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Consider your arse kicked.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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stinkyape

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Rex Man said:
You have two options as I see it. Either:
1) Go all crazy and drive off a cliff spazzing out about it, or

2) Set the mood one night, get the perfect movie, cook for her, even make sure the lighting is right. Invite her over (make sure the place is clean). When she gets inside your place, stab her @ss to death. Better her than you, eh? :up:
Thats spectacular. Can't stop laughing :D :crackup: (And my place is always spotless!)

wjh - that's the advice I've given myself, although I'm not really the crying type. I'll get over it better if I go down to the docks and pick fights with drunk fishermen. If I don't get what I want this weekend, there's stacks of young tail I can let chase me around campus....
 
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