"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Someone is using CAF on my girlfriend

giovannikast

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Hi
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Someone is using CAF on my girlfriend. She got a new job just three weeks ago, where her fellow worker takes advantage for any situation just for busting her balls.
“I am going to have to accuse you for sexual harass”, “you are a stalker”, he has told her and links any situation just to bust her balls as she was harassing him sexually. And told me doesn’t know how to react with this, she just keeps silent. She told me about this yesterday. He remembers me when I bustd her balls before she was my girlfriend.
What should I do? What should she do? I would like to hear your opinions guys.
Giovanni

:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I get blokes at my GF's work doing this to her as well. Cept she plays the game, doesn't go silent, but tells me all of the exchanges. One is a major AFC and my girl is his emotional tampon, so I havn't paid too much attention, and just act "the man" when around em both.
 

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hes obviously one of the chumps who read this site and do everything on it verbatim, so hes got no real game. just keep your girl on point and theres nothing to worry about.
 

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Newsflash: Some guys are naturally C/F.

I was C/F long before I came on this site.
 

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“I am going to have to accuse you for sexual harass”, “you are a stalker”

word for word on this site maybe its a coincidence
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Blame David Deangelo, not this site!

And I need not remind you people that word travels fast over the internet. The good thing is that it's turning most guys that don't know how to effectively utilize it into jerks. That's where we have the edge.

However, too much C&F will turn you into a nerd or a spaz. You will then notice her "forcing" herself to laugh on whim at your little underhanded attempts at humor.

Women are not stupid. They know you're trying to win them over.
 

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You honestly think that's original stuff?
 

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Need advice , what should I do

Hi
Guys
I agree with your opinions but what should my girl do, I would like to hear your opinions guys.
Giovanni
:) :) :)
 

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but what should my girl do
don a pair of rollerskates , fake moustache and viking helmet whilst whistling"ïm a little teapot"

wtf do you mean "what should she do"?

you worrying about what the b1tch is gonna do is time wasted, there is nothing you can do except sit back and watch how the whole exchange unfolds but remain your super cool , super suave and handsome self.

and if this up and commer does win out and smashes the back end of your chick then HOORAY for the bigger better deal. You on the other hand will be the phoenix that rises from the ashes more skilled and knowledgable than before getting burnt.

so its a win win really.
 

giovannikast

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you mean just let them alone?

Well, I act suave, cool... but you mean I just let the things happen... let him space to act... well I think I should tell her about his game just to prevent her, I mean I have to do something about.
I think I would like to read your opinions, guys

:) :) :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: you mean just let them alone?

Originally posted by giovannikast
well I think I should tell her about his game just to prevent her, I mean I have to do something about.
what are you, her guardian angel who guides her through the pitfalls of avoiding horny guys.

cmon mate your not listening. Theres a bigger picture here.
 
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