"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Someone is using CAF on my girlfriend

giovannikast

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Hi
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Someone is using CAF on my girlfriend. She got a new job just three weeks ago, where her fellow worker takes advantage for any situation just for busting her balls.
“I am going to have to accuse you for sexual harass”, “you are a stalker”, he has told her and links any situation just to bust her balls as she was harassing him sexually. And told me doesn’t know how to react with this, she just keeps silent. She told me about this yesterday. He remembers me when I bustd her balls before she was my girlfriend.
What should I do? What should she do? I would like to hear your opinions guys.
Giovanni

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I get blokes at my GF's work doing this to her as well. Cept she plays the game, doesn't go silent, but tells me all of the exchanges. One is a major AFC and my girl is his emotional tampon, so I havn't paid too much attention, and just act "the man" when around em both.
 

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hes obviously one of the chumps who read this site and do everything on it verbatim, so hes got no real game. just keep your girl on point and theres nothing to worry about.
 

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Newsflash: Some guys are naturally C/F.

I was C/F long before I came on this site.
 

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“I am going to have to accuse you for sexual harass”, “you are a stalker”

word for word on this site maybe its a coincidence
 

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Blame David Deangelo, not this site!

And I need not remind you people that word travels fast over the internet. The good thing is that it's turning most guys that don't know how to effectively utilize it into jerks. That's where we have the edge.

However, too much C&F will turn you into a nerd or a spaz. You will then notice her "forcing" herself to laugh on whim at your little underhanded attempts at humor.

Women are not stupid. They know you're trying to win them over.
 

Giovanni Casanova

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You honestly think that's original stuff?
 

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Need advice , what should I do

Hi
Guys
I agree with your opinions but what should my girl do, I would like to hear your opinions guys.
Giovanni
:) :) :)
 

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but what should my girl do
don a pair of rollerskates , fake moustache and viking helmet whilst whistling"ïm a little teapot"

wtf do you mean "what should she do"?

you worrying about what the b1tch is gonna do is time wasted, there is nothing you can do except sit back and watch how the whole exchange unfolds but remain your super cool , super suave and handsome self.

and if this up and commer does win out and smashes the back end of your chick then HOORAY for the bigger better deal. You on the other hand will be the phoenix that rises from the ashes more skilled and knowledgable than before getting burnt.

so its a win win really.
 

giovannikast

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you mean just let them alone?

Well, I act suave, cool... but you mean I just let the things happen... let him space to act... well I think I should tell her about his game just to prevent her, I mean I have to do something about.
I think I would like to read your opinions, guys

:) :) :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: you mean just let them alone?

Originally posted by giovannikast
well I think I should tell her about his game just to prevent her, I mean I have to do something about.
what are you, her guardian angel who guides her through the pitfalls of avoiding horny guys.

cmon mate your not listening. Theres a bigger picture here.
 
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