"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I was out today with some friends and we started playing a game called "Somebody should..." It's basically a rant about things in general that it would be great if somebody did something to help fix the problem (or at least make it easier to deal with).


Somebody should create a place where only single people without young children could hang out and meet.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nah, I don't agree with that.


It would be too borring..... Plus I bet you know that I believe there are no single women out there. At least none that a healthy and single. I preffer a girl that is married, have a boyfriend, or is a lesbian.
 

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Docs said:
Somebody should solve the problem to red lights.


SOLVED. Get a bicycle. Then you can blow those on the side or side walk. No problems. I even blew one with cop waiting for red light. :crackup:

*****es.
 

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djSlvt said:
SOLVED. Get a bicycle. Then you can blow those on the side or side walk. No problems. I even blew one with cop waiting for red light. :crackup:

*****es.
You're annoying.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Somebody should tell women that although they may be comfortable, flip-flops aren't sexy.
 

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actually I kinda dig flip flops on the right girl.. she has to have pretty feet though
 

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actually I kinda dig flip flops on the right girl.. she has to have pretty feet though
I don't know, have you ever really watched women walk in those things? I think it's far from sexy, even petite women seem to lumber about in those things.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Someone should wait for someone else to make things happen.
 

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Vulpine said:
Someone should wait for someone else to make things happen.
Hey! You're giving away the message of this thread!!!! :cuss:
 

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Nighthawk said:
...clone Elvis
They did - he was DJ'ing at an event on saturday that i bartended for. should have seen him play the air gitar.......he had it all - the leather pants, the shoes, the hair....everything.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I don't know, have you ever really watched women walk in those things? I think it's far from sexy, even petite women seem to lumber about in those things.

okay let me put it this way... when girl says "pick what you want me to wear today", I'm not rushing for the flip flops or anything, but just walking around.. i've seen worse.

what's bad is women who don't take care of their feet who wear flip flops
 

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backbreaker said:
actually I kinda dig flip flops on the right girl.. she has to have pretty feet though

Word I dig flip flops :eek:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So do you guys dig flip-flops or is it really women's feet?
 

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women's feet IN flip flops

(how did we start a post about flip flops)

I do have a foot fetish however, I admit that much
 

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Sombody should change the topic of what somebody should do about flip-flops.
 

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what's a gator shoe?


someone should ban women who don't give head
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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