"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some Women Simply Bring Out The AFC in Men

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I have come to the conclusion that some women simply bring out the AFC in men. I dont know how and I dont know why. My ex wife bought out the AFC in me, a little girl I know really well brings it out in me and I can see me slipping that way again with a little chick I am seeing currently.

I think it is the vulnerable ones in my case, the ones that are absolutely easiest to literally convert to being on your team. Stronger minded sexually driven chicks are easiest for me, the others are easy pickings for a PIMP. Others here convert to AFC behaviour for AW's, others seem smitten with "the good girl" types.

I am working HARD on putting on my playa face each morning and being the PIMP, not the bloody saviour. Like an article said on the front screen, "Never try to save a woman".

It is our own fault and something we all need to work on because we all know that the women dont really go for AFC behaviour. As a male, it makes me physically ill when I see a man acting AFC toward his woman, so, it stand to reason it would make women sick as well.

Anyway, had some time to kill, thought I would share this thought.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good Point

Yeah, I can see that, perhaps we need to look at ourselves and why we are attracted to the type of woman that we become AFC toward.
 

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I think you missed the point. I am one of those who gets hot for "good girl" traditional girls. I don't act AFC toward them, but I don't attempt to hide the fact that I'm attracted, either (I keep it under control and don't vomit it out, of course, but that's totally different)
 

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MMM

I go for the semi nuts type. The truly lame I tend to protect, the slightly insane I tend to use. I lack attraction to the good girl types, dont know why, just dont. I think that being raised by women had a rebellion effect on me.

I need the edge of reality type relationships, the "what next?" type. They DO bring out the AFC in me. I am working on this, "you cant save a woman" but its hard. I am working on a thread by a guy about BEing, not acting. Come a long way so far but still have some work to do.

Hey, Im not even complaining, I kind of like this side of me, keeps me alive. I am either trying to fukc them or save them. Want to change that to "stop" the saviour aspect.

Hey Metalfortress, heres a frenetic look at it. "Poot on me play a faze"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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