"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Some Women Simply Bring Out The AFC in Men

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I have come to the conclusion that some women simply bring out the AFC in men. I dont know how and I dont know why. My ex wife bought out the AFC in me, a little girl I know really well brings it out in me and I can see me slipping that way again with a little chick I am seeing currently.

I think it is the vulnerable ones in my case, the ones that are absolutely easiest to literally convert to being on your team. Stronger minded sexually driven chicks are easiest for me, the others are easy pickings for a PIMP. Others here convert to AFC behaviour for AW's, others seem smitten with "the good girl" types.

I am working HARD on putting on my playa face each morning and being the PIMP, not the bloody saviour. Like an article said on the front screen, "Never try to save a woman".

It is our own fault and something we all need to work on because we all know that the women dont really go for AFC behaviour. As a male, it makes me physically ill when I see a man acting AFC toward his woman, so, it stand to reason it would make women sick as well.

Anyway, had some time to kill, thought I would share this thought.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good Point

Yeah, I can see that, perhaps we need to look at ourselves and why we are attracted to the type of woman that we become AFC toward.
 

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I think you missed the point. I am one of those who gets hot for "good girl" traditional girls. I don't act AFC toward them, but I don't attempt to hide the fact that I'm attracted, either (I keep it under control and don't vomit it out, of course, but that's totally different)
 

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MMM

I go for the semi nuts type. The truly lame I tend to protect, the slightly insane I tend to use. I lack attraction to the good girl types, dont know why, just dont. I think that being raised by women had a rebellion effect on me.

I need the edge of reality type relationships, the "what next?" type. They DO bring out the AFC in me. I am working on this, "you cant save a woman" but its hard. I am working on a thread by a guy about BEing, not acting. Come a long way so far but still have some work to do.

Hey, Im not even complaining, I kind of like this side of me, keeps me alive. I am either trying to fukc them or save them. Want to change that to "stop" the saviour aspect.

Hey Metalfortress, heres a frenetic look at it. "Poot on me play a faze"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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