"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Some Women Simply Bring Out The AFC in Men

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I have come to the conclusion that some women simply bring out the AFC in men. I dont know how and I dont know why. My ex wife bought out the AFC in me, a little girl I know really well brings it out in me and I can see me slipping that way again with a little chick I am seeing currently.

I think it is the vulnerable ones in my case, the ones that are absolutely easiest to literally convert to being on your team. Stronger minded sexually driven chicks are easiest for me, the others are easy pickings for a PIMP. Others here convert to AFC behaviour for AW's, others seem smitten with "the good girl" types.

I am working HARD on putting on my playa face each morning and being the PIMP, not the bloody saviour. Like an article said on the front screen, "Never try to save a woman".

It is our own fault and something we all need to work on because we all know that the women dont really go for AFC behaviour. As a male, it makes me physically ill when I see a man acting AFC toward his woman, so, it stand to reason it would make women sick as well.

Anyway, had some time to kill, thought I would share this thought.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good Point

Yeah, I can see that, perhaps we need to look at ourselves and why we are attracted to the type of woman that we become AFC toward.
 

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I think you missed the point. I am one of those who gets hot for "good girl" traditional girls. I don't act AFC toward them, but I don't attempt to hide the fact that I'm attracted, either (I keep it under control and don't vomit it out, of course, but that's totally different)
 

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MMM

I go for the semi nuts type. The truly lame I tend to protect, the slightly insane I tend to use. I lack attraction to the good girl types, dont know why, just dont. I think that being raised by women had a rebellion effect on me.

I need the edge of reality type relationships, the "what next?" type. They DO bring out the AFC in me. I am working on this, "you cant save a woman" but its hard. I am working on a thread by a guy about BEing, not acting. Come a long way so far but still have some work to do.

Hey, Im not even complaining, I kind of like this side of me, keeps me alive. I am either trying to fukc them or save them. Want to change that to "stop" the saviour aspect.

Hey Metalfortress, heres a frenetic look at it. "Poot on me play a faze"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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