"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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backbreaker

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People who shun expensive things for the fact that they are expensive, are no better than people who bshow off by trying to flaunt money.

There is nothing wrong with paying 700 dollars for a meal every once in a while. The problem is, I am not taking a woman that I am not boning on a regular basis, to a restaurant like that. You don't take a woman to a place like that to impress her, you take her there to reward here.

Last year about the end of august, we were up in Saratoga for the Travers stakes. I had NEVER in my life been to NYC, so going there was a priority as well. I had sprung for reservations to Masa. where you have to make reservations like 2 months in advance, they fly the fish in straight from Japan and the head chef, cooks every meal there. our bill when it was all said and done was close to $1400 dollars, with a tip it was about a about 1600 dollars, and that included a 20% surcharge that was built in the price. But you know what, that was my GF's of 3 years at the time's birthday present. lol, that was the first time in my life I can say the food I had earlier, was better than the sex I got later lol. God that was some epic ****. She earned that. That's not something I would do everyday.. I'm a red lobster, chili's type guy when it's all said and done. My fav restaurant in LA is Paisano's and it's not just.. high high. it's not cheap but we can eat for about 100 dollars with drinks and all. Not bad for the quality of food, which IMHO is world class. . But, there is nothing wrong with splurging on a good meal every once in a while. At the end of the day you only live once.

But you have to be a ****ing idiot, to spend that type of omeny on a woman you aren't ****ing. you will have a better time taking 1200 dollars down to the local strip club. come to think of it for 1200 dollaors you would have a hell of a time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I can't picture taking my hommie to a 700 dollar dinner. If we going there we going halfsies. Not to mention my hommie and I would never go to a dinner that expensive, we rather buy chicken wings and legs and fry them in oil while drinking beer and smoking a tree. Then we'd eat the wings and listen to some jams, then drive and get more beer, and then go fishing all night long. I mean if a girl would do it with me it would be so ****ing romantic, she'd be like the best **** buddy ever!
 
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