"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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backbreaker

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People who shun expensive things for the fact that they are expensive, are no better than people who bshow off by trying to flaunt money.

There is nothing wrong with paying 700 dollars for a meal every once in a while. The problem is, I am not taking a woman that I am not boning on a regular basis, to a restaurant like that. You don't take a woman to a place like that to impress her, you take her there to reward here.

Last year about the end of august, we were up in Saratoga for the Travers stakes. I had NEVER in my life been to NYC, so going there was a priority as well. I had sprung for reservations to Masa. where you have to make reservations like 2 months in advance, they fly the fish in straight from Japan and the head chef, cooks every meal there. our bill when it was all said and done was close to $1400 dollars, with a tip it was about a about 1600 dollars, and that included a 20% surcharge that was built in the price. But you know what, that was my GF's of 3 years at the time's birthday present. lol, that was the first time in my life I can say the food I had earlier, was better than the sex I got later lol. God that was some epic ****. She earned that. That's not something I would do everyday.. I'm a red lobster, chili's type guy when it's all said and done. My fav restaurant in LA is Paisano's and it's not just.. high high. it's not cheap but we can eat for about 100 dollars with drinks and all. Not bad for the quality of food, which IMHO is world class. . But, there is nothing wrong with splurging on a good meal every once in a while. At the end of the day you only live once.

But you have to be a ****ing idiot, to spend that type of omeny on a woman you aren't ****ing. you will have a better time taking 1200 dollars down to the local strip club. come to think of it for 1200 dollaors you would have a hell of a time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I can't picture taking my hommie to a 700 dollar dinner. If we going there we going halfsies. Not to mention my hommie and I would never go to a dinner that expensive, we rather buy chicken wings and legs and fry them in oil while drinking beer and smoking a tree. Then we'd eat the wings and listen to some jams, then drive and get more beer, and then go fishing all night long. I mean if a girl would do it with me it would be so ****ing romantic, she'd be like the best **** buddy ever!
 
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