Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Quite the contrary, Realnezz. I DO know what a DJ is.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
No one even knows what a DJ is or is supposed to be.The moderators don't even know.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This is a good perspective and I'll add there must be some deeply rooted substance to go with the marketing.Originally posted by Survivor
Quite the contrary, Realnezz. I DO know what a DJ is.
It has nothing to do with women, sex, dating, relationships or even self-improvement.
"DJism", however, has everything to do with marketing.
That's why even as a mod I try to use the term "DJ" as little as possible.
Yah, this site is here to sell stuff. www.sosuave.com the main page has or had a ton of affiliate sales programs all over it.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
I don't know what to take from that,Survivor.I'm assuming your saying this site is here to just sell something.
4 shoOriginally posted by Tha Realnezz
"Focusing on women and pickups and on macking and being a player isn't going to help a guy who is just starting out. The average joe here doesn't have the skills or even the mindset for this game yet.
Most guys here fall in love with every hot chick they talk to! This leads to obsessive behaviour which just drags these guys down. You see these obsessive/oneitis posts everyday. So telling a guy to just focus on women and his game, doesn't really work. They focus so much on chicks and trying to get laid by anyone that they end up being a bunch of pVssy-crazed idiots."
Ok,but the reason their not getting it's cuz they're bogged down with "becoming the pize" -so to speak- in the first place.
Your not lying when you say i'm another level.But I have a duty to help these kids.It's like I said before some people are hiding behind that reasoning of -"I don't need women now cuz I'm happy with my life"-That's cool.
But at the end of the day people log on to figure out how to get women.When you tell someone-"I don't need women"-your just making up excuses.
Let's someone did take all the Don Juan steps and suddenly got ripped,got a new job and new car,clothes,apt,the promotion AND get women.Your not helping anyone by just replying to everything with "self-imrovement first" -Don't just say that show them how to get women .
That's real talk. When kids say that, they're just fooling themselves.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Your not lying when you say i'm another level.But I have a duty to help these kids.It's like I said before some people are hiding behind that reasoning of -"I don't need women now cuz I'm happy with my life"-That's cool.
But at the end of the day people log on to figure out how to get women.When you tell someone-"I don't need women"-your just making up excuses.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.