When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Quite the contrary, Realnezz. I DO know what a DJ is.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
No one even knows what a DJ is or is supposed to be.The moderators don't even know.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This is a good perspective and I'll add there must be some deeply rooted substance to go with the marketing.Originally posted by Survivor
Quite the contrary, Realnezz. I DO know what a DJ is.
It has nothing to do with women, sex, dating, relationships or even self-improvement.
"DJism", however, has everything to do with marketing.
That's why even as a mod I try to use the term "DJ" as little as possible.
Yah, this site is here to sell stuff. www.sosuave.com the main page has or had a ton of affiliate sales programs all over it.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
I don't know what to take from that,Survivor.I'm assuming your saying this site is here to just sell something.
4 shoOriginally posted by Tha Realnezz
"Focusing on women and pickups and on macking and being a player isn't going to help a guy who is just starting out. The average joe here doesn't have the skills or even the mindset for this game yet.
Most guys here fall in love with every hot chick they talk to! This leads to obsessive behaviour which just drags these guys down. You see these obsessive/oneitis posts everyday. So telling a guy to just focus on women and his game, doesn't really work. They focus so much on chicks and trying to get laid by anyone that they end up being a bunch of pVssy-crazed idiots."
Ok,but the reason their not getting it's cuz they're bogged down with "becoming the pize" -so to speak- in the first place.
Your not lying when you say i'm another level.But I have a duty to help these kids.It's like I said before some people are hiding behind that reasoning of -"I don't need women now cuz I'm happy with my life"-That's cool.
But at the end of the day people log on to figure out how to get women.When you tell someone-"I don't need women"-your just making up excuses.
Let's someone did take all the Don Juan steps and suddenly got ripped,got a new job and new car,clothes,apt,the promotion AND get women.Your not helping anyone by just replying to everything with "self-imrovement first" -Don't just say that show them how to get women .
That's real talk. When kids say that, they're just fooling themselves.Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Your not lying when you say i'm another level.But I have a duty to help these kids.It's like I said before some people are hiding behind that reasoning of -"I don't need women now cuz I'm happy with my life"-That's cool.
But at the end of the day people log on to figure out how to get women.When you tell someone-"I don't need women"-your just making up excuses.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.