"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Some thing advice needed here?

oneboy21

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 28, 2006
Messages
357
Reaction score
5
Location
Columbus, OH
OK , i got a hand writing sample from a bar tender, had a good conv with her while she was working. where to take from here ?
she gave me her email address, i told her i am going to write my opinion on her hand writing to her email.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Joe Stud

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 23, 2009
Messages
685
Reaction score
16
Location
Upstate NY
Lets see, handwriting analysis on your hot barmaid? ...
*You are a real go getter, fast paced & ambitous (works at a bar).
*You are sought after by many males.. for friendship AND for romance & lust (most decent looking bar maids have their own following).
* You are unhappy with the current males that are after you (she's single).
* You are super flirtatious, super approachable (bar business).
* You seek a job with more money, but have a problem leaving your current occupation because you enjoy it
* You are very sought after by friends (male & female) for your inate ability to give good love advice (bartender)
* You are wise beyond your years, but choose not to flaunt it.
* You were once hurt in love, and it makes you very cautious & choosy about men (good bet, shes single in an occupation where theres tons of men).
* You are an optimist... always look at the good side. Glass is half full.
* You love a good meal, a good hot bath, and a quiet night snuggled up in bed with a book.
* You relate more with men than women... and many times you find that women are slow to warm up to you (most hotties have this situation).
* You are a bit materialistic, because you like to spoil yourself with nice things.
* You have no problem competing with men, and you usually outperform them.
* You secretly wish you were closer to your family.
* You will meet a guy soon, that will appear to be just another one of the guys, but as you get to know him, you will find him to be deep, and totally in-tuned with you. The sexual attraction will come slowly, but once it gets off the ground, it will be phenomenal!

Okay, now that I did your homework for ya, go earn some $$ so you can tip her well, and keep the dialog going.
 

Allurre

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2008
Messages
661
Reaction score
19
If you're going to opine on her handwriting, keep it short and funny.

Then, set up a date. Don't ask, tell her you'll be making your next coffee fix at starbucks on...xxxxxxxxx

Come join me. It'll be fun :) I've got something interesting to tell you about your handwriting.
 

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,591
Reaction score
6,380
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
Bar maids flirt for a living, so keep that in mind. Don't be crushed if she is not interested in you outside of work. Women who work for tips will often feign affection to get a bigger tip. I'm not saying they're all impossible...but just have thick skin about it.
 

She_feelin_Me

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 23, 2009
Messages
64
Reaction score
0
Location
VA
Joe Stud said:
Okay, now that I did your homework for ya, go earn some $$ so you can tip her well, and keep the dialog going.
Man I hope you was joking with that line....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Joe Stud

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 23, 2009
Messages
685
Reaction score
16
Location
Upstate NY
Nevermind pickin at me she... how about steppin up and just give the man some advice. BTW, when I go out, I dont worry about every cent I spend... I throw some $$ around. and I get all kinds of azz. Shes there to make a living, has her choice of men, and shes not gonna be impressed with you for being a hoarding cheapskate.
 
Top