"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Some thing advice needed here?

oneboy21

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OK , i got a hand writing sample from a bar tender, had a good conv with her while she was working. where to take from here ?
she gave me her email address, i told her i am going to write my opinion on her hand writing to her email.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lets see, handwriting analysis on your hot barmaid? ...
*You are a real go getter, fast paced & ambitous (works at a bar).
*You are sought after by many males.. for friendship AND for romance & lust (most decent looking bar maids have their own following).
* You are unhappy with the current males that are after you (she's single).
* You are super flirtatious, super approachable (bar business).
* You seek a job with more money, but have a problem leaving your current occupation because you enjoy it
* You are very sought after by friends (male & female) for your inate ability to give good love advice (bartender)
* You are wise beyond your years, but choose not to flaunt it.
* You were once hurt in love, and it makes you very cautious & choosy about men (good bet, shes single in an occupation where theres tons of men).
* You are an optimist... always look at the good side. Glass is half full.
* You love a good meal, a good hot bath, and a quiet night snuggled up in bed with a book.
* You relate more with men than women... and many times you find that women are slow to warm up to you (most hotties have this situation).
* You are a bit materialistic, because you like to spoil yourself with nice things.
* You have no problem competing with men, and you usually outperform them.
* You secretly wish you were closer to your family.
* You will meet a guy soon, that will appear to be just another one of the guys, but as you get to know him, you will find him to be deep, and totally in-tuned with you. The sexual attraction will come slowly, but once it gets off the ground, it will be phenomenal!

Okay, now that I did your homework for ya, go earn some $$ so you can tip her well, and keep the dialog going.
 

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If you're going to opine on her handwriting, keep it short and funny.

Then, set up a date. Don't ask, tell her you'll be making your next coffee fix at starbucks on...xxxxxxxxx

Come join me. It'll be fun :) I've got something interesting to tell you about your handwriting.
 

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Bar maids flirt for a living, so keep that in mind. Don't be crushed if she is not interested in you outside of work. Women who work for tips will often feign affection to get a bigger tip. I'm not saying they're all impossible...but just have thick skin about it.
 

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Joe Stud said:
Okay, now that I did your homework for ya, go earn some $$ so you can tip her well, and keep the dialog going.
Man I hope you was joking with that line....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Joe Stud

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Nevermind pickin at me she... how about steppin up and just give the man some advice. BTW, when I go out, I dont worry about every cent I spend... I throw some $$ around. and I get all kinds of azz. Shes there to make a living, has her choice of men, and shes not gonna be impressed with you for being a hoarding cheapskate.
 
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