"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Some sort of strange...incest thing... idunno

Lil Magic

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We'll today i went to a family party today and a chick who's in my class shows up and it turns out she's my second or third cousin or something. She's pretty hot and i had been trying to get her a little at school. We cracked some jokes and we had to take a family picture and she stood in front of me. Lets just say there was a little pelvic relations...enough to give me a stiffy anyway.I told my male cousin and wingman and he told me he had the same ideas about her. The point is im dying the f*ck her. I've danced with her before. Im from the Bahamas and i think you Americans call it juking or perreo or something like that. Anyway, look 'em up on youtube and youll see what i mean. What would you guys do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sachiel

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Your cousin? Doesn't matter how she's related, I would not be the one to go after a relative. Imagine if she was your sister. Would you still be interested? I doubt it. There are plenty of other girls out there, so its unnecessary for you to look to your extended family.

Take my advice or leave it. That's just my take.
 

ligyron

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Lil Magic said:
The point is im dying the f*ck her
No, the point is you're f*cked in the head. Where do you freaks come from seriously?
 

KontrollerX

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If she is willing then go for it.

Its not your sister after all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Maxtro

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As long as she is not you're first cousin it should be ok. Even though I tried to put moves on my first cousin back when I was 14 or so :p
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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If she's hot, you don't want a relationship and you're sure it'll work, go for it!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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just so suave

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:nono: I'd friendzone her straight away.

You must be gutted though, because its seems you liked her and then now you've found out your related.

Plenty more fish...
 
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