"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Some sort of strange...incest thing... idunno

Lil Magic

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We'll today i went to a family party today and a chick who's in my class shows up and it turns out she's my second or third cousin or something. She's pretty hot and i had been trying to get her a little at school. We cracked some jokes and we had to take a family picture and she stood in front of me. Lets just say there was a little pelvic relations...enough to give me a stiffy anyway.I told my male cousin and wingman and he told me he had the same ideas about her. The point is im dying the f*ck her. I've danced with her before. Im from the Bahamas and i think you Americans call it juking or perreo or something like that. Anyway, look 'em up on youtube and youll see what i mean. What would you guys do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sachiel

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Your cousin? Doesn't matter how she's related, I would not be the one to go after a relative. Imagine if she was your sister. Would you still be interested? I doubt it. There are plenty of other girls out there, so its unnecessary for you to look to your extended family.

Take my advice or leave it. That's just my take.
 

ligyron

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Lil Magic said:
The point is im dying the f*ck her
No, the point is you're f*cked in the head. Where do you freaks come from seriously?
 

KontrollerX

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If she is willing then go for it.

Its not your sister after all.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maxtro

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As long as she is not you're first cousin it should be ok. Even though I tried to put moves on my first cousin back when I was 14 or so :p
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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If she's hot, you don't want a relationship and you're sure it'll work, go for it!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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just so suave

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:nono: I'd friendzone her straight away.

You must be gutted though, because its seems you liked her and then now you've found out your related.

Plenty more fish...
 
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