"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some sort of strange...incest thing... idunno

Lil Magic

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We'll today i went to a family party today and a chick who's in my class shows up and it turns out she's my second or third cousin or something. She's pretty hot and i had been trying to get her a little at school. We cracked some jokes and we had to take a family picture and she stood in front of me. Lets just say there was a little pelvic relations...enough to give me a stiffy anyway.I told my male cousin and wingman and he told me he had the same ideas about her. The point is im dying the f*ck her. I've danced with her before. Im from the Bahamas and i think you Americans call it juking or perreo or something like that. Anyway, look 'em up on youtube and youll see what i mean. What would you guys do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sachiel

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Your cousin? Doesn't matter how she's related, I would not be the one to go after a relative. Imagine if she was your sister. Would you still be interested? I doubt it. There are plenty of other girls out there, so its unnecessary for you to look to your extended family.

Take my advice or leave it. That's just my take.
 

ligyron

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Lil Magic said:
The point is im dying the f*ck her
No, the point is you're f*cked in the head. Where do you freaks come from seriously?
 

KontrollerX

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If she is willing then go for it.

Its not your sister after all.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maxtro

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As long as she is not you're first cousin it should be ok. Even though I tried to put moves on my first cousin back when I was 14 or so :p
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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If she's hot, you don't want a relationship and you're sure it'll work, go for it!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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just so suave

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:nono: I'd friendzone her straight away.

You must be gutted though, because its seems you liked her and then now you've found out your related.

Plenty more fish...
 
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