"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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some quick advice!

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Cherokee

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Ok cutting a long story short, me and this girl, lots of history 3 1/2 years on n off, atm we're off because she says.

"I'm scared about commiting after uni, this prospect terrifies me... but I don't want to lose you, I have no idea what I want"

shes mega stressed as its her exams... shes asked for space until they're over, and then she said we should have a good chat about everything (she was in tears as she said this...), should I throw a wrench in the works and be like, urm, actually I want out of this?

(ps. I do wanna be with her, but im questioning that now...)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm in the Mood

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I'd let her go before things get worse dude.
You can keep her as a friend if you'd like while you're finding another woman.

If she doesn't pull herself together while you're still her bf, you'll get trapped in her chaotic female mind...I'd just tell her I want out.
 
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Cherokee

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lol talking of chaotic female mind, this chat last a few hours rather than minutes, she kept avoiding the break up thing and instead insisted we be truthful with each other. And dam we've found a lot about each other we found was pissing us off... still not properly sorted. Being single is so much better. o_0
 
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Cinamon

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Wow, intense. It took me three months breaking up with a guy like that, everytime i was ready to call it off something came up and it just made me think i'd be a ***** to finish it now. What i have learnt is there is never a good time to do it, you just gotta be strong and walk away.
 
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