some quick advice!

[Cherokee]

Ok cutting a long story short, me and this girl, lots of history 3 1/2 years on n off, atm we're off because she says.

"I'm scared about commiting after uni, this prospect terrifies me... but I don't want to lose you, I have no idea what I want"

shes mega stressed as its her exams... shes asked for space until they're over, and then she said we should have a good chat about everything (she was in tears as she said this...), should I throw a wrench in the works and be like, urm, actually I want out of this?

(ps. I do wanna be with her, but im questioning that now...)

 

[I'm in the Mood]

I'd let her go before things get worse dude.
You can keep her as a friend if you'd like while you're finding another woman.

If she doesn't pull herself together while you're still her bf, you'll get trapped in her chaotic female mind...I'd just tell her I want out.

 

[Cherokee]

lol talking of chaotic female mind, this chat last a few hours rather than minutes, she kept avoiding the break up thing and instead insisted we be truthful with each other. And dam we've found a lot about each other we found was pissing us off... still not properly sorted. Being single is so much better. o_0

 

[Cinamon]

Wow, intense. It took me three months breaking up with a guy like that, everytime i was ready to call it off something came up and it just made me think i'd be a ***** to finish it now. What i have learnt is there is never a good time to do it, you just gotta be strong and walk away.