"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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some quick advice!

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Cherokee

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Ok cutting a long story short, me and this girl, lots of history 3 1/2 years on n off, atm we're off because she says.

"I'm scared about commiting after uni, this prospect terrifies me... but I don't want to lose you, I have no idea what I want"

shes mega stressed as its her exams... shes asked for space until they're over, and then she said we should have a good chat about everything (she was in tears as she said this...), should I throw a wrench in the works and be like, urm, actually I want out of this?

(ps. I do wanna be with her, but im questioning that now...)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm in the Mood

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I'd let her go before things get worse dude.
You can keep her as a friend if you'd like while you're finding another woman.

If she doesn't pull herself together while you're still her bf, you'll get trapped in her chaotic female mind...I'd just tell her I want out.
 
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lol talking of chaotic female mind, this chat last a few hours rather than minutes, she kept avoiding the break up thing and instead insisted we be truthful with each other. And dam we've found a lot about each other we found was pissing us off... still not properly sorted. Being single is so much better. o_0
 
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Wow, intense. It took me three months breaking up with a guy like that, everytime i was ready to call it off something came up and it just made me think i'd be a ***** to finish it now. What i have learnt is there is never a good time to do it, you just gotta be strong and walk away.
 
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