"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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some ******** questions

Deadly_Assassin

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I have been told by a chick that I have a boyish charm and I get away with a lot of things cos of it, now what in the world is she really on about? and is dat good to have a boyish charm?

now this chick is not the asian chick from church, shes an indian chick from my work. Shes probably a 6 on the scale, but really good personality, but shes been hurt in the past and blah blah blah, shes still a virgin not that I wanna be the one to change that btw. She also tells me about how this other guy from some other branch keeps hitting on her, how sleazy he is and looks desperate and he is always after her number. And how she doesnt believe in guys and most guys seem to be the same and you know the rest.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, I noticed some things here:

1. The boyish charm thing sounds like it could be interpreted directly; she could be saying that you are able to get away with things because of the charming appearance of youthful innocence; or she could be saying that you are inexperienced and immature brat and manage to get away with it somehow. It just depends whether you want to see it as a negitive or positive thing.

2. Why are you letting this girl talk about other guys to you? Maybe it is just me, but I would have changed the subject away from the other guy or would have ended the conversation somehow.
 

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A long time back in the AFC days, I landed up in the friendzone with the queen of all sunshine girls, so I got over it & shrugged it off.

One fine day, she asks me "If we were together, would you have broken up with w/ me(because of her high moral stand of not getting physical)" ....I said "yeah, because of your sunshine behaviours" I asked her later wheter she was attracted to me & she denied it ...oh well wonder what that was all abt then :rolleyes:
 

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i am not attracted to her but when she said that i was wondering what she was on about. The topic came up when I told her how the girls down at the cafe near my work give me a big discount on all the food I buy off them. Then she said you have a boyish charm and u get away with a lot of things cos of it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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rgeere

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Originally posted by Deadly_Assassin
i am not attracted to her but when she said that i was wondering what she was on about. The topic came up when I told her how the girls down at the cafe near my work give me a big discount on all the food I buy off them. Then she said you have a boyish charm and u get away with a lot of things cos of it.
Ohh, take back what I said now that it is in context, she basically called you cute ...
 

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Whenever broads start talking about other guys I just ignore it usually. But the other day some broad was talking about how some guys mother keeps trying to set her up with his son, and how creepy the son is, to which I replied, "Creepy eh? Well, he sounds perfect for you."
 
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