"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Deadly_Assassin

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I have been told by a chick that I have a boyish charm and I get away with a lot of things cos of it, now what in the world is she really on about? and is dat good to have a boyish charm?

now this chick is not the asian chick from church, shes an indian chick from my work. Shes probably a 6 on the scale, but really good personality, but shes been hurt in the past and blah blah blah, shes still a virgin not that I wanna be the one to change that btw. She also tells me about how this other guy from some other branch keeps hitting on her, how sleazy he is and looks desperate and he is always after her number. And how she doesnt believe in guys and most guys seem to be the same and you know the rest.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rgeere

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Well, I noticed some things here:

1. The boyish charm thing sounds like it could be interpreted directly; she could be saying that you are able to get away with things because of the charming appearance of youthful innocence; or she could be saying that you are inexperienced and immature brat and manage to get away with it somehow. It just depends whether you want to see it as a negitive or positive thing.

2. Why are you letting this girl talk about other guys to you? Maybe it is just me, but I would have changed the subject away from the other guy or would have ended the conversation somehow.
 

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A long time back in the AFC days, I landed up in the friendzone with the queen of all sunshine girls, so I got over it & shrugged it off.

One fine day, she asks me "If we were together, would you have broken up with w/ me(because of her high moral stand of not getting physical)" ....I said "yeah, because of your sunshine behaviours" I asked her later wheter she was attracted to me & she denied it ...oh well wonder what that was all abt then :rolleyes:
 

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i am not attracted to her but when she said that i was wondering what she was on about. The topic came up when I told her how the girls down at the cafe near my work give me a big discount on all the food I buy off them. Then she said you have a boyish charm and u get away with a lot of things cos of it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rgeere

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Originally posted by Deadly_Assassin
i am not attracted to her but when she said that i was wondering what she was on about. The topic came up when I told her how the girls down at the cafe near my work give me a big discount on all the food I buy off them. Then she said you have a boyish charm and u get away with a lot of things cos of it.
Ohh, take back what I said now that it is in context, she basically called you cute ...
 

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Whenever broads start talking about other guys I just ignore it usually. But the other day some broad was talking about how some guys mother keeps trying to set her up with his son, and how creepy the son is, to which I replied, "Creepy eh? Well, he sounds perfect for you."
 
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