"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Deadly_Assassin

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I have been told by a chick that I have a boyish charm and I get away with a lot of things cos of it, now what in the world is she really on about? and is dat good to have a boyish charm?

now this chick is not the asian chick from church, shes an indian chick from my work. Shes probably a 6 on the scale, but really good personality, but shes been hurt in the past and blah blah blah, shes still a virgin not that I wanna be the one to change that btw. She also tells me about how this other guy from some other branch keeps hitting on her, how sleazy he is and looks desperate and he is always after her number. And how she doesnt believe in guys and most guys seem to be the same and you know the rest.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, I noticed some things here:

1. The boyish charm thing sounds like it could be interpreted directly; she could be saying that you are able to get away with things because of the charming appearance of youthful innocence; or she could be saying that you are inexperienced and immature brat and manage to get away with it somehow. It just depends whether you want to see it as a negitive or positive thing.

2. Why are you letting this girl talk about other guys to you? Maybe it is just me, but I would have changed the subject away from the other guy or would have ended the conversation somehow.
 

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A long time back in the AFC days, I landed up in the friendzone with the queen of all sunshine girls, so I got over it & shrugged it off.

One fine day, she asks me "If we were together, would you have broken up with w/ me(because of her high moral stand of not getting physical)" ....I said "yeah, because of your sunshine behaviours" I asked her later wheter she was attracted to me & she denied it ...oh well wonder what that was all abt then :rolleyes:
 

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i am not attracted to her but when she said that i was wondering what she was on about. The topic came up when I told her how the girls down at the cafe near my work give me a big discount on all the food I buy off them. Then she said you have a boyish charm and u get away with a lot of things cos of it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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rgeere

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Originally posted by Deadly_Assassin
i am not attracted to her but when she said that i was wondering what she was on about. The topic came up when I told her how the girls down at the cafe near my work give me a big discount on all the food I buy off them. Then she said you have a boyish charm and u get away with a lot of things cos of it.
Ohh, take back what I said now that it is in context, she basically called you cute ...
 

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Whenever broads start talking about other guys I just ignore it usually. But the other day some broad was talking about how some guys mother keeps trying to set her up with his son, and how creepy the son is, to which I replied, "Creepy eh? Well, he sounds perfect for you."
 
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