"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some questions for all you really attractive guys.

gonnamakeachange

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I'm curious to know the answers to the following questions:

1. On an average day, how many women (that you don't know) start a conversation with you?

2. What do they normally ask or talk about to start a conversation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MSwrestler

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I've had girls commenting on my glasswa or accessories. "Nice glasses."

I've been told by my bros, gf that I am a very good looking guy. And it seems some girls attempt to make eye contact, while I sense others are really intimidated. Usually when I make eye contact with a girl, she looks away. But I have never really been approached by women.
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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When I'm in bars, I get approached by women all the time.

But it's usually when the one I'm with is in the ladies room.

When I go to the gym, women of all ages stare at me and are affected enough by my presence to pretend not to be affected. The girls who work there are more friendly every time I visit.

Same thing with most women I encounter as a customer-they are intentionally standoffish the first time I visit, but the next time I come in they act like I'm an old friend with the appropriate degrees of reception.
 
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