"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some questions for all you really attractive guys.

gonnamakeachange

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I'm curious to know the answers to the following questions:

1. On an average day, how many women (that you don't know) start a conversation with you?

2. What do they normally ask or talk about to start a conversation?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MSwrestler

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I've had girls commenting on my glasswa or accessories. "Nice glasses."

I've been told by my bros, gf that I am a very good looking guy. And it seems some girls attempt to make eye contact, while I sense others are really intimidated. Usually when I make eye contact with a girl, she looks away. But I have never really been approached by women.
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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When I'm in bars, I get approached by women all the time.

But it's usually when the one I'm with is in the ladies room.

When I go to the gym, women of all ages stare at me and are affected enough by my presence to pretend not to be affected. The girls who work there are more friendly every time I visit.

Same thing with most women I encounter as a customer-they are intentionally standoffish the first time I visit, but the next time I come in they act like I'm an old friend with the appropriate degrees of reception.
 
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