"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some questions for all you really attractive guys.

gonnamakeachange

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I'm curious to know the answers to the following questions:

1. On an average day, how many women (that you don't know) start a conversation with you?

2. What do they normally ask or talk about to start a conversation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MSwrestler

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I've had girls commenting on my glasswa or accessories. "Nice glasses."

I've been told by my bros, gf that I am a very good looking guy. And it seems some girls attempt to make eye contact, while I sense others are really intimidated. Usually when I make eye contact with a girl, she looks away. But I have never really been approached by women.
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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When I'm in bars, I get approached by women all the time.

But it's usually when the one I'm with is in the ladies room.

When I go to the gym, women of all ages stare at me and are affected enough by my presence to pretend not to be affected. The girls who work there are more friendly every time I visit.

Same thing with most women I encounter as a customer-they are intentionally standoffish the first time I visit, but the next time I come in they act like I'm an old friend with the appropriate degrees of reception.
 
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