Some pretty smooth openers?

[Jordski]

Hey guys, so I was looking at my FB profile untill I saw this girl that used to be my juniors in Highschool. She wasnt some sort of spectacular back then but boy, shes pretty hot now, went to med school and stuff. We were kinda close before because I was in relathionship with her bestfriend. Soo my question is what would be the great openers to reconnect to her without being boring and obvious? I kinda wanna get her number and ask her out. Thoughts would be appreciated.

 

[dustmuffin]

Just send her a message that you would like to go out for a drink and catch up.

 

[marmel75]

Stop overthinking things...it's always obvious why you would be contacting her. As if somehow she doesn't realize that you want to bang her when you just start messaging her out of the blue.

Stop trying to figure out a way to do it and just do the normal thing and ask her out for a drink. Confidence means you don't have to trick women into meeting you, you simply ask them out. Be confident, not like one of these dudes who thinks they need to trick women into going out. They see through it every time trust me.

 

[Jordski]

out of the blue

Thats the only thing that Im concern of. But youre right I shall be normal, thanks.

 

[Tictac]

Thats the only thing that Im concern of. But youre right I shall be normal, thanks.

authenticity works best.

 

[Reykhel]

Thats the only thing that Im concern of. But youre right I shall be normal, thanks.

A man goes for what he wants.

Give her the opportunity to spend time with you.

You can only hope that she's grateful.

 

[Uncharted]

Send her a message something like small convo but then push for her number so you can text. From there don't spend too much time texting. Tell her you guys should get together for drinks on xxx day.

 

[Jordski]

Give her the opportunity to spend time with you.

You can only hope that she's grateful.

Now thats an attitude..

 

[Yewki]

Nothing against the OP, but this is such a classic blue pill mistake. Trying to think of that one clever thing to say to open her up and make her fall for you. This is called creating a mountain out of a mole hill and is the result of pedestalization.

If the blue pill guy ever does eventually work up the courage to say something, it will likely come across as try hard (desperate) or awkward. And will probably be worse than if he had just casually said, "Hey"

Moral of the story, stop giving a f*ck.

 

[SmooveMooves]

"Hey"

 

[JohnChops]

Don't be normal. Regard normalcy as anethema to the DJ mindset.

normal is ****ing boring.

 

[bigneil]

Canned openers rarely work because you know you are using an opener. I realized this in 5th grade. Instead, make up your own routine and try it out by lots of practice. Yes, that means lots of failures, but also more overall success.

 

[Jordski]

Thanks for all the insights guys. But I dont think a simple "hey" to someone that you havent been talking for years wouldnt work. And im not pedestaling here. Esp on facebook, its not gonna get you anywhere but "seen" zone. I think it should be a little more details and right to the point isnt it?

 

[RangerMIke]

What always works best for me is paying her a border line sexual complement, then asking her her name always works for me. Also imagine in the back of your mind that an even hotter woman is waiting for you on the other side of the room. This puts you in the proper frame.

"I noticed that you have the nicest legs, what's your name?"

What ever it is that you PHYSICALLY noticed about her that attracted you... tell her.

She'll either thank you and open up, or she'll shut you down. If it's the later just move on. If she is interested she will work to keep your attention, then it's easy.

 

[Jordski]

"I noticed that you have the nicest legs, what's your name?

So suave haha. I bet it made her laugh too, or at least chuckle. Smile is definitely. Thanks

 

[Huffman]

What always works best for me is paying her a border line sexual complement, then asking her her name always works for me.

That's great, a fine balance between sexuality and politeness.