"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Some older/younger celebrity relationships

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Older woman, Younger Man (It only counts if it's 5 years and older) situation occurs at a much lower rate than Older man, Younger woman, or even close-age difference.

In most of these 5 year difference and plus, it usually involves a woman who are ignored by older men or same age men and the woman are able to afford the relationship (ie. they're the ones that are rich vs the younger male who freeloads.)

Damn Vanna White is the hotness for a 45 year old. And she looks quite nice without makeup too.
 

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Is there a version of that which also has the opposite?

i.e. Older Man celebrities with Younger Woman celebrities
 

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Originally posted by Tactical Assault
Is there a version of that which also has the opposite?

i.e. Older Man celebrities with Younger Woman celebrities
yes anna nichole was the youngest to date the oldest man haha
 

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Originally posted by Tactical Assault
Is there a version of that which also has the opposite?

i.e. Older Man celebrities with Younger Woman celebrities
I don't think you can draw conclusions from what 'celebrities' do. They live their lives for 1 reason only: to promote themselves. Their lives have nothing to do with real life and everything to do with staying in the public eye.

Look at the rich non-celebrities and who they are boning. While the Anna-Nichol Smith (or whatever) case is well known, my hats off to Rupert Murdoch (owns Fox amongst lots of others).

http://www.theage.com.au/ffximage/2005/03/01/vanity4_gallery__371x550.jpg
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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