"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some older/younger celebrity relationships

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Older woman, Younger Man (It only counts if it's 5 years and older) situation occurs at a much lower rate than Older man, Younger woman, or even close-age difference.

In most of these 5 year difference and plus, it usually involves a woman who are ignored by older men or same age men and the woman are able to afford the relationship (ie. they're the ones that are rich vs the younger male who freeloads.)

Damn Vanna White is the hotness for a 45 year old. And she looks quite nice without makeup too.
 

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Is there a version of that which also has the opposite?

i.e. Older Man celebrities with Younger Woman celebrities
 

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Originally posted by Tactical Assault
Is there a version of that which also has the opposite?

i.e. Older Man celebrities with Younger Woman celebrities
yes anna nichole was the youngest to date the oldest man haha
 

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Originally posted by Tactical Assault
Is there a version of that which also has the opposite?

i.e. Older Man celebrities with Younger Woman celebrities
I don't think you can draw conclusions from what 'celebrities' do. They live their lives for 1 reason only: to promote themselves. Their lives have nothing to do with real life and everything to do with staying in the public eye.

Look at the rich non-celebrities and who they are boning. While the Anna-Nichol Smith (or whatever) case is well known, my hats off to Rupert Murdoch (owns Fox amongst lots of others).

http://www.theage.com.au/ffximage/2005/03/01/vanity4_gallery__371x550.jpg
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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