"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some older/younger celebrity relationships

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Older woman, Younger Man (It only counts if it's 5 years and older) situation occurs at a much lower rate than Older man, Younger woman, or even close-age difference.

In most of these 5 year difference and plus, it usually involves a woman who are ignored by older men or same age men and the woman are able to afford the relationship (ie. they're the ones that are rich vs the younger male who freeloads.)

Damn Vanna White is the hotness for a 45 year old. And she looks quite nice without makeup too.
 

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Is there a version of that which also has the opposite?

i.e. Older Man celebrities with Younger Woman celebrities
 

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Originally posted by Tactical Assault
Is there a version of that which also has the opposite?

i.e. Older Man celebrities with Younger Woman celebrities
yes anna nichole was the youngest to date the oldest man haha
 

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Originally posted by Tactical Assault
Is there a version of that which also has the opposite?

i.e. Older Man celebrities with Younger Woman celebrities
I don't think you can draw conclusions from what 'celebrities' do. They live their lives for 1 reason only: to promote themselves. Their lives have nothing to do with real life and everything to do with staying in the public eye.

Look at the rich non-celebrities and who they are boning. While the Anna-Nichol Smith (or whatever) case is well known, my hats off to Rupert Murdoch (owns Fox amongst lots of others).

http://www.theage.com.au/ffximage/2005/03/01/vanity4_gallery__371x550.jpg
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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