"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Some older/younger celebrity relationships

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Older woman, Younger Man (It only counts if it's 5 years and older) situation occurs at a much lower rate than Older man, Younger woman, or even close-age difference.

In most of these 5 year difference and plus, it usually involves a woman who are ignored by older men or same age men and the woman are able to afford the relationship (ie. they're the ones that are rich vs the younger male who freeloads.)

Damn Vanna White is the hotness for a 45 year old. And she looks quite nice without makeup too.
 

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Is there a version of that which also has the opposite?

i.e. Older Man celebrities with Younger Woman celebrities
 

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Originally posted by Tactical Assault
Is there a version of that which also has the opposite?

i.e. Older Man celebrities with Younger Woman celebrities
yes anna nichole was the youngest to date the oldest man haha
 

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Originally posted by Tactical Assault
Is there a version of that which also has the opposite?

i.e. Older Man celebrities with Younger Woman celebrities
I don't think you can draw conclusions from what 'celebrities' do. They live their lives for 1 reason only: to promote themselves. Their lives have nothing to do with real life and everything to do with staying in the public eye.

Look at the rich non-celebrities and who they are boning. While the Anna-Nichol Smith (or whatever) case is well known, my hats off to Rupert Murdoch (owns Fox amongst lots of others).

http://www.theage.com.au/ffximage/2005/03/01/vanity4_gallery__371x550.jpg
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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