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Master Don Juan
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i just wanna look like Razor Ramon
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BelleSing94 said:..I started feeling like there really were some genuine, nice guys around.
he was just messing around. btw, women like older men, you know it, so i don't see why you're acting surprised.BelleSing94 said:Then he asked me for a pic and I was like sure why not so I sent him one. After that...ugh. His messages got more sexual and wayyy creepier
What kind of guy sends shirtless photos and pics of his d1ck to girls HALF his age online? Ewww!!!!!
Um I would. Being a more mature guy results in the majority of women I associate with being younger. Not always by half my years but that has happened.BelleSing94 said:It was then that I clicked on his profile and realized he is 43 YEARS OLD. Gross!
What kind of guy sends shirtless photos and pics of his d1ck to girls HALF his age online? Ewww!!!!!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
cordoncordon said:Strong words. U mad? Anytime you want to pay me a visit, feel free. I live right in Valenica CA.
Funny how you can dish it out, but anyone says anything back to you? You tip over like.....like an annoyed like girl. Which you are. :cheer:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I knew it!cordoncordon said:As a woman...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Giovanni Casanova did and married her.bigneil said:And seriously, would anyone try to pick up a girl on SS??
...and it wasn't even a real woman this time. Atom, get your ass into the Mod forum so we can discuss the scenarioAtom Smasher said:Once again I point out that every time a woman posts on here, we turn against each other.
http://img534.imageshack.us/img534/4816/plzstoppost.jpgDanger said:LOL isn't that the truth.
Thank Captain Cordon, King of the White Knights!
Apologizing on behalf of men everywhere!
http://img534.imageshack.us/img534/4816/plzstoppost.jpgbigneil said:I suspected this was a story made up by a forum member who joined for this reason. For example, would this girl really have been exchanging pictures with NN privately before clicking on his profile or reading his age? And seriously, would anyone try to pick up a girl on SS??
I knew it!
Like I said, keep visiting the brothels you love to frequent in China or Vietnam or Thailand or whatever buttfawk country you are from. Or better yet go pick up some more skanks so they can leave you in the middle of a date, holding your 2 inch cawk in your hand, while you mutter to yourself "I am a tornado"! while you jack yourself off. I hear lady boys are popular too where you're from. But, you know all about that...don't you?zinc4 said:Yeah...ok..i am going to go book a ticket and fly all the way over the Pacific Ocean to meet some butthurt AFC stranger to fight him....hahahaha...you keep hanging yourself man...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.