"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Plenty of women, I'd say and the consensus on SS is more women than men lack a moral compass, but women don't commit crimes per se, they don't need to. There could be several factors for men commiting more crimes but the top would be frustration and desperation.To be honest, I'm really sick of you labeling guys "bitter" on here. There's more bitter and mean women around than men. And they're bitter for no reason but their own fault. Many of them make as much or more money as men and have their pick of guys. They just pick the wrong ones maybe.iqqi said:
I definitley know of lots of nice guys that approach and approach and it does them little good. There seems to be a negative correlation for being nice and intelligent and attracting women.
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KontrollerX said:
Exactly how I feel about this site.
iqqi
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That is utter bullsh!t, and just an excuse for you to not blame yourself for picking women without morals.ketostix said:
iqqi
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Its just flat out stupid to think someone is without morals just because of their gender. Half the assumptions I see thrown out here are plain dumb, and really just excuses for men not to seek better. Then again you have the retards who would seem to settle for any relationship, period, like the desperate sounding bunch over in the "does every pretty girl have a boyfriend." thread. I believe it was said that the only criteria to get into a relationship was 1. not be ugly 2. some other dumb crap.Mad Manic said:
No wonder some of you have such a low opinion of women. Look at your standards! Some of you have none! And those of you that do... well you obviously aren't factoring in morals.
Did your mom have a moral compass?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Don't you know that was done through God's intentions? :crackup:iqqi said:
In all seriousness, I sometimes feel sorry for women knowing they're going to have to settle down and marry some of these AFC-type guys out there. If you've read any of my posts in the past, you probably have heard me complain about a handful of my friends who are huge AFCs and refuse to do anything to try to better themselves or listen to my advice in any way. Instead, they wallow and mope in their own self-pity and depression. Eventually, my buddies are all going to get in their late 20s/early 30s and some chics looking for husbands are going to settle for them. I feel bad for my friends and for those women that they will eventually marry, because they are headed for a difficult and possibly miserable future with each other. Though, the kids they have together will probably suffer most. Their sons won't have fathers who will teach them how to be men, and the wife will wear the pants in their families. Those will be some fvcked up households that will undoubtedly produce some fvcked up kids.
We give women a lot of grief on here, but sometimes I think we need to be a lot tougher on these guys who refuse to better themselves and evolve beyond their ways. If AFCs didn't exist, the "matrix" or whatever it is called wouldn't exist either.
Young girl then kills herself. Don't know if that woman is doing any time, but it was a lot worse, and in general I think that women do worse things than men.
ElChoclo said:
Yes and this was one of the saddest stories I ever heard. Last I heard there will be no charges against the woman, big surprise. Law enforcements says, there's no laws to prosecute her with.." But in most states in the US now if a man as young as 18 so much as says sexual words to a girl under the age of 16 on the internet( actually not even a real teen girl but a cop posing as one), he can serve up to 2 years in prison and be labeled a sexual predatory
Talk about having screwed up priorities..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah well I still totally disagree with iqqi. Whether a guy has quality standards or not says nothing about how many quality women there are or how moral women are. The fact is regardless of what they say most men are happy as long as their getting sex with a nonugly girl.jonwon said:This is why i love some of your posts
Nice.