"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There are definitely idiots, losers, users, criminals, and just plain trash of both sexes. I deal with them on a daily basis.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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iqqi said:
Do you really think that most pointless crimes are vents of sexual frustration??

I think most pointless crimes are committed by people with little to no moral compass. These people maybe alienate themselves with their lack of thought or care for others.
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Plenty of women, I'd say and the consensus on SS is more women than men lack a moral compass, but women don't commit crimes per se, they don't need to. There could be several factors for men commiting more crimes but the top would be frustration and desperation.To be honest, I'm really sick of you labeling guys "bitter" on here. There's more bitter and mean women around than men. And they're bitter for no reason but their own fault. Many of them make as much or more money as men and have their pick of guys. They just pick the wrong ones maybe.

I definitley know of lots of nice guys that approach and approach and it does them little good. There seems to be a negative correlation for being nice and intelligent and attracting women.
 
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Oh your post is definitely a good example of how men can be idiots too joekerr no argument there.

"which is why i laugh when guys get so high and mighty on here about how men are the best and women suck."

Well I think its that way because this is basically a site for men only that women can partake in if they find out it exists but anyway this place is a site for men to vent and improve themselves without having to worry about some chick picking apart what they say.

Basically when a guy is here on this site its very much like he's with his brothers.

Still a good wake up call of a post to such guys that get too lost in the venting phase here though.
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Exactly how I feel about this site. :up:
 
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Plenty of women, I'd say and the consensus on SS is more women than men lack a moral compass
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That is utter bullsh!t, and just an excuse for you to not blame yourself for picking women without morals.
 
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And your reasoning for it being utter BS is?

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Its just flat out stupid to think someone is without morals just because of their gender. Half the assumptions I see thrown out here are plain dumb, and really just excuses for men not to seek better. Then again you have the retards who would seem to settle for any relationship, period, like the desperate sounding bunch over in the "does every pretty girl have a boyfriend." thread. I believe it was said that the only criteria to get into a relationship was 1. not be ugly 2. some other dumb crap.

No wonder some of you have such a low opinion of women. Look at your standards! Some of you have none! And those of you that do... well you obviously aren't factoring in morals.

Did your mom have a moral compass?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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iqqi said:
Its just flat out stupid to think someone is without morals just because of their gender.
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Don't you know that was done through God's intentions? :crackup:

In all seriousness, I sometimes feel sorry for women knowing they're going to have to settle down and marry some of these AFC-type guys out there. If you've read any of my posts in the past, you probably have heard me complain about a handful of my friends who are huge AFCs and refuse to do anything to try to better themselves or listen to my advice in any way. Instead, they wallow and mope in their own self-pity and depression. Eventually, my buddies are all going to get in their late 20s/early 30s and some chics looking for husbands are going to settle for them. I feel bad for my friends and for those women that they will eventually marry, because they are headed for a difficult and possibly miserable future with each other. Though, the kids they have together will probably suffer most. Their sons won't have fathers who will teach them how to be men, and the wife will wear the pants in their families. Those will be some fvcked up households that will undoubtedly produce some fvcked up kids.

We give women a lot of grief on here, but sometimes I think we need to be a lot tougher on these guys who refuse to better themselves and evolve beyond their ways. If AFCs didn't exist, the "matrix" or whatever it is called wouldn't exist either.
 
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Bad judgment, bad behaviour, but then again, in your country you had the woman in her 40s who pretended to be a young guy and made friends with a young girl on the internet (with whom she was actually acquainted since they were neighbours). She leads the girl on and then dumps her suggesting that she (the young girl) doesn't deserve to live.

Young girl then kills herself. Don't know if that woman is doing any time, but it was a lot worse, and in general I think that women do worse things than men.
 
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ElChoclo said:
Bad judgment, bad behaviour, but then again, in your country you had the woman in her 40s who pretended to be a young guy and made friends with a young girl on the internet (with whom she was actually acquainted since they were neighbours). She leads the girl on and then dumps her suggesting that she (the young girl) doesn't deserve to live.

Young girl then kills herself. Don't know if that woman is doing any time, but it was a lot worse, and in general I think that women do worse things than men.
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Yes and this was one of the saddest stories I ever heard. Last I heard there will be no charges against the woman, big surprise. Law enforcements says, there's no laws to prosecute her with.." But in most states in the US now if a man as young as 18 so much as says sexual words to a girl under the age of 16 on the internet( actually not even a real teen girl but a cop posing as one), he can serve up to 2 years in prison and be labeled a sexual predatory

Talk about having screwed up priorities..
 
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iqqi said:
Its just flat out stupid to think someone is without morals just because of their gender. Half the assumptions I see thrown out here are plain dumb, and really just excuses for men not to seek better. Then again you have the retards who would seem to settle for any relationship, period, like the desperate sounding bunch over in the "does every pretty girl have a boyfriend." thread. I believe it was said that the only criteria to get into a relationship was 1. not be ugly 2. some other dumb crap.

No wonder some of you have such a low opinion of women. Look at your standards! Some of you have none! And those of you that do... well you obviously aren't factoring in morals.

Did your mom have a moral compass?
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This is why i love some of your posts :D

Nice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jonwon said:
This is why i love some of your posts :D

Nice.
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Yeah well I still totally disagree with iqqi. Whether a guy has quality standards or not says nothing about how many quality women there are or how moral women are. The fact is regardless of what they say most men are happy as long as their getting sex with a nonugly girl.
 
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