"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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some guys get all the girls other get none whyyyyy

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joe45

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anyone now of why some guys never are single-always have a date or gf- get multiple girls , even cheat on some of em , gets sex all the time and ...... while some guys like me -can;t even get a single girl to date me other than an very obese girl which i find very unattrative-hey i even try too. whats the differ and secrets between us.
i even heard of some guys having crap job and driving these old clunkers and they get hot girls-wonder how they do it-u guys now of any guys and couple slike this and how are they like and what do they do -secrets

its not even money i think b/c most of the girls don;t even now if i'm rich or not and same for the guys-unless u tell em straight out- i don;t do that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tazman

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Come on Joe, you should be well beyond these types of questions by now.
 
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tmpgstx

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It doesn't help when you're Chinese ;)

No .. seriously though you make a very good point.

To really know the answer we have to dealve into the psyche to that which is woman.

She will be attracted to what she isn't. In other words, the more feminine (girly girl if you will) - the more masculine male she will seek.

How is masculinity defined? It's not so much by looks or muscle. It's referred to as 'maleness' and is often characterized through body language and actions. Some guys do look more *male* than others to certain girls. The more male a guy looks, the more feminine looking girls will want him.

Jerks and guys that live on the *edge* have this maleness about them through their actions. Bold and risk taking. Ever notice how many of them are not good looking? Many and just average yet they have an attitude that their *IT* to women. This is magnetic.

They have that attitude that they can take it or leave it and act in such a way that displays maleness.

Try walking around like you're god's gift to women and have a take it or leave it attitude.

Don't do this if you're good looking and not extroverted, otherwise you'll come across as arrogant.
 
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Oh man, I don't want to be an azz, but your threads are getting annoying!:down:
It's always about extremely AFC things that even "average" Asians won't think about or talk about: mail order bride for example and now this 100% whiney post...:rolleyes:

I think you really need some "shock therapy", get out of your normal social setting and confort zone, you need to get "remodeled" by a new environment.
But to be honest with you, I'm not optimistic about it, considering how weak-minded and negative and self-defeating you sound.

Again, I hope you get your sh*t together one day, soon.
:)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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STFU, Rod..

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