"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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some guys get all the girls other get none whyyyyy

joe45

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anyone now of why some guys never are single-always have a date or gf- get multiple girls , even cheat on some of em , gets sex all the time and ...... while some guys like me -can;t even get a single girl to date me other than an very obese girl which i find very unattrative-hey i even try too. whats the differ and secrets between us.
i even heard of some guys having crap job and driving these old clunkers and they get hot girls-wonder how they do it-u guys now of any guys and couple slike this and how are they like and what do they do -secrets

its not even money i think b/c most of the girls don;t even now if i'm rich or not and same for the guys-unless u tell em straight out- i don;t do that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tazman

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Come on Joe, you should be well beyond these types of questions by now.
 

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It doesn't help when you're Chinese ;)

No .. seriously though you make a very good point.

To really know the answer we have to dealve into the psyche to that which is woman.

She will be attracted to what she isn't. In other words, the more feminine (girly girl if you will) - the more masculine male she will seek.

How is masculinity defined? It's not so much by looks or muscle. It's referred to as 'maleness' and is often characterized through body language and actions. Some guys do look more *male* than others to certain girls. The more male a guy looks, the more feminine looking girls will want him.

Jerks and guys that live on the *edge* have this maleness about them through their actions. Bold and risk taking. Ever notice how many of them are not good looking? Many and just average yet they have an attitude that their *IT* to women. This is magnetic.

They have that attitude that they can take it or leave it and act in such a way that displays maleness.

Try walking around like you're god's gift to women and have a take it or leave it attitude.

Don't do this if you're good looking and not extroverted, otherwise you'll come across as arrogant.
 

Le Parisien

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Oh man, I don't want to be an azz, but your threads are getting annoying!:down:
It's always about extremely AFC things that even "average" Asians won't think about or talk about: mail order bride for example and now this 100% whiney post...:rolleyes:

I think you really need some "shock therapy", get out of your normal social setting and confort zone, you need to get "remodeled" by a new environment.
But to be honest with you, I'm not optimistic about it, considering how weak-minded and negative and self-defeating you sound.

Again, I hope you get your sh*t together one day, soon.
:)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sux2bu

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STFU, Rod..

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