"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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some guys get all the girls other get none whyyyyy

joe45

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anyone now of why some guys never are single-always have a date or gf- get multiple girls , even cheat on some of em , gets sex all the time and ...... while some guys like me -can;t even get a single girl to date me other than an very obese girl which i find very unattrative-hey i even try too. whats the differ and secrets between us.
i even heard of some guys having crap job and driving these old clunkers and they get hot girls-wonder how they do it-u guys now of any guys and couple slike this and how are they like and what do they do -secrets

its not even money i think b/c most of the girls don;t even now if i'm rich or not and same for the guys-unless u tell em straight out- i don;t do that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tazman

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Come on Joe, you should be well beyond these types of questions by now.
 

tmpgstx

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It doesn't help when you're Chinese ;)

No .. seriously though you make a very good point.

To really know the answer we have to dealve into the psyche to that which is woman.

She will be attracted to what she isn't. In other words, the more feminine (girly girl if you will) - the more masculine male she will seek.

How is masculinity defined? It's not so much by looks or muscle. It's referred to as 'maleness' and is often characterized through body language and actions. Some guys do look more *male* than others to certain girls. The more male a guy looks, the more feminine looking girls will want him.

Jerks and guys that live on the *edge* have this maleness about them through their actions. Bold and risk taking. Ever notice how many of them are not good looking? Many and just average yet they have an attitude that their *IT* to women. This is magnetic.

They have that attitude that they can take it or leave it and act in such a way that displays maleness.

Try walking around like you're god's gift to women and have a take it or leave it attitude.

Don't do this if you're good looking and not extroverted, otherwise you'll come across as arrogant.
 

Le Parisien

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Oh man, I don't want to be an azz, but your threads are getting annoying!:down:
It's always about extremely AFC things that even "average" Asians won't think about or talk about: mail order bride for example and now this 100% whiney post...:rolleyes:

I think you really need some "shock therapy", get out of your normal social setting and confort zone, you need to get "remodeled" by a new environment.
But to be honest with you, I'm not optimistic about it, considering how weak-minded and negative and self-defeating you sound.

Again, I hope you get your sh*t together one day, soon.
:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sux2bu

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STFU, Rod..

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