"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some girls knocked on my door, but I was on the phone what should be my next move?

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So I was sitting on my dorm room and I was talking to my dad on the phone (they didn't notice it though) and some girls knocked on my door, apparently they were trying to meet new people. One was cute, the other one not..

Anyways...

We talked for a bit, my dad didn't talk while I was talking to them, he was on speaker phone, but I didn't want to keep him waiting as we were talking about something important. So we kinda said hi, I asked for their names, they said they lived upstairs and to come over whenever. They read some "golden rules" about dating I think, you should never say "I love you" on your first date, or some sh*t like that.

Any ideas on my next move?

Thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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go upstairs and **** them. that's your next move. duh.
 
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Indigo said:
So I was sitting on my dorm room and I was talking to my dad on the phone (they didn't notice it though) and some girls knocked on my door, apparently they were trying to meet new people. One was cute, the other one not..

Anyways...

We talked for a bit, my dad didn't talk while I was talking to them, he was on speaker phone, but I didn't want to keep him waiting as we were talking about something important. So we kinda said hi, I asked for their names, they said they lived upstairs and to come over whenever. They read some "golden rules" about dating I think, you should never say "I love you" on your first date, or some sh*t like that.

Any ideas on my next move?

Thanks.
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WHAT??? :confused:

You meet two girls and they invite you to come over sometime. So, hopefully, you being a intelligent man. Would go up there and get to know them!!! Then, you fvck one of them. Or both... 2 sums, 3 sums, full on orgys!!! whatever u perfer.
 
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wait 'til you see them again and say hello, remind them that they came by your place, and have a real conversation this time
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you guys obviously never went to college. Going up to a girl's room without her inviting you, especially if you don't even know her, will most likely get her to tell every other girl she knows about how much of a "creepy" person you are.

Unless you're legitimately trying to ask her something about schoolwork or just trying to give her a quick msg. Compare it to going up to the door of a girl's house.

Granted, I wouldn't mind if someone came up to my doorstep and tried to be friendly. But then again, I'm not a flaky woman, am I?
 
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Yep - get up there BEFORE they meet and make friends with everyone else and your LEFT talking to your folks each evening wondering why your all alone...

Its not creepy, pop up there and say your looking for x & Y and that they popped by before. be natural and explain you were busy on the phone and never really got to say hi to them.

BINGO - your in.

get socialising my man....:cool:
 
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Next time open the door shirtless duh! You would be amazed at how funny peoples reactions are when you do it.
 
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Obsidian said:
you guys obviously never went to college. Going up to a girl's room without her inviting you, especially if you don't even know her, will most likely get her to tell every other girl she knows about how much of a "creepy" person you are.

Unless you're legitimately trying to ask her something about schoolwork or just trying to give her a quick msg. Compare it to going up to the door of a girl's house.

Granted, I wouldn't mind if someone came up to my doorstep and tried to be friendly. But then again, I'm not a flaky woman, am I?
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It's not creepy at all. Just go up there and say "Me and a few friends are going out tonight, just seeing if you guys want to come?"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Next time open the door shirtless duh! You would be amazed at how funny peoples reactions are when you do it.
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Hell why not go for the gusto and just open the door in your birthday suit?
 
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Order sum flowers and Bring it to their door with a note...

"Keep the flowers just give me back my pot"

gets them every time :)
 
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yeh but they haven't done anything to deserve flowers. he better get a bj or BETTER before he waste his precious money and time to get them something. but really go and talk to them and use some c&F/kino, show them your interesting and then get em to a high point this is when you suddenly LEAVE but get the best close you can like a kiss close/# attached with the idea that you might want to meet up with them later. you'll have em thinking you have more important things than them which can display value if your close is done appropriatly, unless they are in for the Fvck-close right then. But if they fvck right then i hope you seriously use a condom on such fast moving little nymphotic girls.
 
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