"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Some girls knocked on my door, but I was on the phone what should be my next move?

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So I was sitting on my dorm room and I was talking to my dad on the phone (they didn't notice it though) and some girls knocked on my door, apparently they were trying to meet new people. One was cute, the other one not..

Anyways...

We talked for a bit, my dad didn't talk while I was talking to them, he was on speaker phone, but I didn't want to keep him waiting as we were talking about something important. So we kinda said hi, I asked for their names, they said they lived upstairs and to come over whenever. They read some "golden rules" about dating I think, you should never say "I love you" on your first date, or some sh*t like that.

Any ideas on my next move?

Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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go upstairs and **** them. that's your next move. duh.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Indigo said:
So I was sitting on my dorm room and I was talking to my dad on the phone (they didn't notice it though) and some girls knocked on my door, apparently they were trying to meet new people. One was cute, the other one not..

Anyways...

We talked for a bit, my dad didn't talk while I was talking to them, he was on speaker phone, but I didn't want to keep him waiting as we were talking about something important. So we kinda said hi, I asked for their names, they said they lived upstairs and to come over whenever. They read some "golden rules" about dating I think, you should never say "I love you" on your first date, or some sh*t like that.

Any ideas on my next move?

Thanks.
WHAT??? :confused:

You meet two girls and they invite you to come over sometime. So, hopefully, you being a intelligent man. Would go up there and get to know them!!! Then, you fvck one of them. Or both... 2 sums, 3 sums, full on orgys!!! whatever u perfer.
 

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wait 'til you see them again and say hello, remind them that they came by your place, and have a real conversation this time
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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you guys obviously never went to college. Going up to a girl's room without her inviting you, especially if you don't even know her, will most likely get her to tell every other girl she knows about how much of a "creepy" person you are.

Unless you're legitimately trying to ask her something about schoolwork or just trying to give her a quick msg. Compare it to going up to the door of a girl's house.

Granted, I wouldn't mind if someone came up to my doorstep and tried to be friendly. But then again, I'm not a flaky woman, am I?
 

PectoralisMajor

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Yep - get up there BEFORE they meet and make friends with everyone else and your LEFT talking to your folks each evening wondering why your all alone...

Its not creepy, pop up there and say your looking for x & Y and that they popped by before. be natural and explain you were busy on the phone and never really got to say hi to them.

BINGO - your in.

get socialising my man....:cool:
 

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Next time open the door shirtless duh! You would be amazed at how funny peoples reactions are when you do it.
 

wheelin&dealin

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Obsidian said:
you guys obviously never went to college. Going up to a girl's room without her inviting you, especially if you don't even know her, will most likely get her to tell every other girl she knows about how much of a "creepy" person you are.

Unless you're legitimately trying to ask her something about schoolwork or just trying to give her a quick msg. Compare it to going up to the door of a girl's house.

Granted, I wouldn't mind if someone came up to my doorstep and tried to be friendly. But then again, I'm not a flaky woman, am I?
It's not creepy at all. Just go up there and say "Me and a few friends are going out tonight, just seeing if you guys want to come?"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ValleyDJing

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blinkwatt said:
Next time open the door shirtless duh! You would be amazed at how funny peoples reactions are when you do it.

Hell why not go for the gusto and just open the door in your birthday suit?
 

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Order sum flowers and Bring it to their door with a note...

"Keep the flowers just give me back my pot"

gets them every time :)
 

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yeh but they haven't done anything to deserve flowers. he better get a bj or BETTER before he waste his precious money and time to get them something. but really go and talk to them and use some c&F/kino, show them your interesting and then get em to a high point this is when you suddenly LEAVE but get the best close you can like a kiss close/# attached with the idea that you might want to meet up with them later. you'll have em thinking you have more important things than them which can display value if your close is done appropriatly, unless they are in for the Fvck-close right then. But if they fvck right then i hope you seriously use a condom on such fast moving little nymphotic girls.
 
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