"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some chicks birthday is tomorrow

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The girl who sits behind me is turning 19 tomorrow. I'm thinking about giving her a funny / meanish card just to be different. My whole point is to show her and the girls that sit around me that I'm a cool funny guy.

Good idea or a bad idea? If it's a good idea what kind of card will work best?

I just got the idea that I'll tell her that I'll buy her lunch but that she has to order from the dollar menu :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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she's 19..you're 26..if i were you i wouldn't even give her the time of day or night...but if you must, i would simply say happy b-day then be like how old are you 16 now or something like that haa..
 

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My age don't mean shlt. All the girls that go to college are 18-22 so if I swear that group off I'll get nothing. Also, they are soo fine at that age.

I want to make a "good impression" on her and the girls that sit around me.
 

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well sheeit, then id skip a b-day card altogether, seems to friendly...after class id ask her for her number and try and take her to a bar that doesnt card and have a fun night with her
 

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Thatfeel21 said:
well sheeit, then id skip a b-day card altogether, seems to friendly...after class id ask her for her number and try and take her to a bar that doesnt card and have a fun night with her
Yeah, a card seems too friendly to me.

Just say happy birthday, small talk, then tell her/suggest that you take her out to celebrate it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hmm two no's on the card. Even if it was pretty mean? I thought it would be a nice way to show some C & F.

I don't know her that well and if I took her out I'd want to to be very simple and casual.
 

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Maxtro said:
Hmm two no's on the card. Even if it was pretty mean? I thought it would be a nice way to show some C & F.

I don't know her that well and if I took her out I'd want to to be very simple and casual.
Even if the card was pretty mean, you had to be nice enough to get her one in the first place though. lol
It's all up to you though.

That why you'd take her out. To get to know her.
But if you're not up to that yet, what about lunch after class? coffee shop? Anything would do if she doesn't have a class right afterwards.
 

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Yeah nice enough to get a card but if the card was mean it shows that I'm not a total wuss either.

I was thinking about lunch after class. None of us have a class after that and we're all hungry.
 

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I got a friend of mine a "To my daughter" card with her gift on her b-day. It's purely a platonic friendship though, I wouldn't do her even if she's attractive. She's usually the person I goto if I need help commiting some immoral act as her percieved innocence gets us out of trouble almost always.

If you want it to go somewhere though, I'd suggest refraining from the card.
 

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to physically go out and buy a younger girl you're not poking a card? nahh thats way to friendly trust me...no matter how c&f you were gonnna be, card-buying is what chicks do for other chicks...assess your testosterone and act your age, ask her out
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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