"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Some chicks birthday is tomorrow

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The girl who sits behind me is turning 19 tomorrow. I'm thinking about giving her a funny / meanish card just to be different. My whole point is to show her and the girls that sit around me that I'm a cool funny guy.

Good idea or a bad idea? If it's a good idea what kind of card will work best?

I just got the idea that I'll tell her that I'll buy her lunch but that she has to order from the dollar menu :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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she's 19..you're 26..if i were you i wouldn't even give her the time of day or night...but if you must, i would simply say happy b-day then be like how old are you 16 now or something like that haa..
 

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My age don't mean shlt. All the girls that go to college are 18-22 so if I swear that group off I'll get nothing. Also, they are soo fine at that age.

I want to make a "good impression" on her and the girls that sit around me.
 

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well sheeit, then id skip a b-day card altogether, seems to friendly...after class id ask her for her number and try and take her to a bar that doesnt card and have a fun night with her
 

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Thatfeel21 said:
well sheeit, then id skip a b-day card altogether, seems to friendly...after class id ask her for her number and try and take her to a bar that doesnt card and have a fun night with her
Yeah, a card seems too friendly to me.

Just say happy birthday, small talk, then tell her/suggest that you take her out to celebrate it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hmm two no's on the card. Even if it was pretty mean? I thought it would be a nice way to show some C & F.

I don't know her that well and if I took her out I'd want to to be very simple and casual.
 

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Maxtro said:
Hmm two no's on the card. Even if it was pretty mean? I thought it would be a nice way to show some C & F.

I don't know her that well and if I took her out I'd want to to be very simple and casual.
Even if the card was pretty mean, you had to be nice enough to get her one in the first place though. lol
It's all up to you though.

That why you'd take her out. To get to know her.
But if you're not up to that yet, what about lunch after class? coffee shop? Anything would do if she doesn't have a class right afterwards.
 

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Yeah nice enough to get a card but if the card was mean it shows that I'm not a total wuss either.

I was thinking about lunch after class. None of us have a class after that and we're all hungry.
 

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I got a friend of mine a "To my daughter" card with her gift on her b-day. It's purely a platonic friendship though, I wouldn't do her even if she's attractive. She's usually the person I goto if I need help commiting some immoral act as her percieved innocence gets us out of trouble almost always.

If you want it to go somewhere though, I'd suggest refraining from the card.
 

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to physically go out and buy a younger girl you're not poking a card? nahh thats way to friendly trust me...no matter how c&f you were gonnna be, card-buying is what chicks do for other chicks...assess your testosterone and act your age, ask her out
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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