"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some advise on how to write the first reply back

Hughman

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Okay, so I'm making progress and I'm in convo with a girl I might possibly be in a chance with. Here's my FR: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=159518

Her message on FB: 'hey sorry bout that its been quite busy i completely forgot to txt back :) [i c+f her on the fact she never texted me back ony my first text] how u been? you enjoy the pub the other day? read any good books lately? :p'

Now, there's questions, which is good. She's interested in how I feel, which is good, but asking about books? (common ground found of our love of reading) I appreciate if I handle this wrong, I could get LJBFed hard. So any advise on how to approach this and get a date (again, I appreciate several messages may be required to get it)

Here's the draft of my reply:

'I've been good ta. Had an old friend round for a long weekend [and her little sister : / ] - that's what I left early, had to get ready for them. Twas fun to catch up with them, haven't seen her in years, doesn't help they live in Greece.

As for books, well, they're top secret, couldn't possibly tell you about them ; )

'you reading anything that captures the vivid imagination? Or is that going to be a secret? :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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COD

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wheres your challenge, wheres your tease, C & F, NEG..............U claim U want to avoid lets just be friends.........DUDE THIS SCREAMS OF WUSS BOY wanting to be JUST her friend.

So inject some playa like texts, invoke some banter, tease a lil more. Reading wow are u fricken serious..............FAKE IT DUDE..........say something like I am reading how to disarm a bomb, Jeorpardy for GENIOUS's, Dr. Suess, the 3 little pigs.............HUMOR dude........come on you know this stuff, now mix it up already.
 

r0cky

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I'd say you steer away from boring topics such as books. So ignoring her question is the best thing. She's probably only trying to make convo and thats the best she could come up with. Try to come with something better to talk about.
 
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